As a follow up to my previous entries I need to know right now is perhaps maybe no contact good for this situation:

After getting back on track of talking and stuff I feel strong feelings for this girl. At times she would tell me she misses me. I asked her out and she said that she doesnt know. And its been like that ever since. I Dont know what to do honestly. But everytime i talk to her I enjoy it, whether its for 10mins or an hr on the phone. I would sometimes tell her I miss her and she would say she missed me too. Then after a family incident on sunday I just felt really messed up. She called me and I told her. But at the spur of everything and thru the conversation, i told her that i wanted us to be more. She really doesnt know. And honestly I feel that im stuck in this confusing stage right now of our friendship. She said she would call me tomorrow which would be today but she didnt. Probably because shes studying for school or something.

I hope this makes sense. Please feel free to ask me any question for you to understand.

see if u really like her so go ahead n ask her 4 a date ... but first ask her dat she has any crush or boyfrnd...n make sure dat she is still the same wid u... ask her n give her time to think n yes don't force her... n show her dat how much u r serious for her ... plzzz if she is good don't let her go...

Perhaps... Any other advice?

tomorrow were hanging out.... ughhh im so nervous... ne ideas on how to handle this?

Relax.... why are you worried, just be yourself and have fun. Do try to overdo anything and impress her you do not need that.

Be yourself.

I never understood why people made a big deal of dates, whenever I went on them I never took them as something special, but rather a fun night out with someone. If I feel I had a good time and she made me happy, I take it from there. Once step at a time.... but the key is be YOURSELF

could i ask how long you have been trying to date this girl?

if she liked you and wanted to date you and spend more time with with,would she not already be doing it?

there comes a stage where it all gets too confusing and it all becomes too much hassel.

if your seeing her soon just relax,and ease off a bit..its no big deal...if she does not like you for you then the solution is easy...move on...

when you meet her again,keep things light and easy and let her do a little bit of the work in keeping the conversation going.

but dont over think or try to hard...