me and my boyfriend were haveing sex and all of a sudden he turned on the lights and there was on his hand but there was no hole in the condom when he checked, why was there a hole? could i be pregnant? how long should i wait to take a pregnancy test?

calm down. take a deep breath. and let's try to make sense of that first post. was there or was there not a hole in the condom when he pulled out of you? and when was there sperm on his hand? sperm on his hand only seems like it would be relevant if his hand went into your vagina after it had sperm on it.

anytime you have sex you run the risk of getting pregnant because no bc is 100% effective. even if you were using hormonal bc and condoms, while the chances do decrease, there is always still some chance of pregnancy.

wait until your next expected period. if it doesn't come within a few days of when you expect it, take a pregnancy test using your first morning urine. i'd buy a two pack. if the first one is negative, but your period still has not come after another week, you should retest.

Maybe you should have sex with the lights on...

You seem inexperienced and the last thing you want to do is be in the dark.

Sarah