That info will need to be supplied by the contractor doing the work. He should have done a manual J for your structure and you actually need that to do the start of the calculations.
Cost difference has to use exacting calculations and the calculations will have to be done for the 13 SEER and then the 16 SEER. Then the two will be subtracted and the energy calculations saved will be shown. Then you will need to muitiply the energy calculations by the cost of the utilitys to get a final dollar savings.
All this information is local from your utility company since you will also need a basis for usage. This can be a long drawn out affair but I can tell you that the difference from a 13 to a 16 will never pay you back for the extra expense unless you are heating and cooling a gigantic building.
Below is a tip for you to use in selecting a contractor and BTW get at least two but better yet three different estimates for the work to be performed.