I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend. No regrets, we've been together for quite some time now and I feel extremely comfortable with him. Anyways, during our first time, I bled. I expected this, and was not worried about it. But, we have tried having sex a few times after that and every time I start bleeding again. I only bleed during the time we are having sex, it doesn't keep bleeding after. It's only been about 3 days since I actually lost my virginity, and we've had sex two more times after that. After we had sex, there was blood on the condom and a little on the sheets...I went to the bathroom right after, but there was no blood at all. Could something be wrong? I've read about similar situations online that say that it is normal to bleed the first few times, but I am still worried...:(

You are probably too dry during sex Kat. If it is bright blood it is only from abrasions in your vagina. Buy a lubricant such as AstroGlide, or use gel baby oil before having sex and it will ease his entry a bit and during.

Apply the gel baby oil just at the entry, make a game of it, a little playtime and it will be better for you. As you become less tight, you may not need as much but it is still a fun thing to use. Your own natural lubrication will take over and this only happens with a lot of foreplay as you become arroused.

good luck

ms. tickle