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BxBori163
Jun 3, 2009, 11:16 AM
ok so, basically i've been with my boyfriend for going on 10 months already. we been having sex for a while now and i never felt any type of pain after the sex. but all of a sudden, i had sex with him yesterday, but it was ALOT of sex and a little bit rough, and this morning i began to have a very bad pain in my vagina. and i dont know what it could be. i thought i might be that my period was coming up, but the pain isnt like cramps. its in my vagina. and me and my boyfriend both get check and we both are clean so idk wat it could be. HELP PLEASE:(
JudyKayTee
Jun 3, 2009, 12:19 PM
How rough? You could be bruised internally.
tickle
Jun 3, 2009, 02:10 PM
You probably became toO dry eventually but kept on going (and if you dont truly enjoy the extra sex) and are just doing it to please him, STOP. You probably felt some discomfort during and could have had extra lubricant (say, oh boy, look what I have love) on hand to compensate. Try Astroglide, a bit of baby oil in the gel form, which is easier to manage and doesnt drip all over the place.

KISS (keep it simple stupid) which is always more enjoyable in the long run.

Just lay off the sex for a few days until you heal. Maybe a couple of weeks would be a better option. If he complains, tell him why, be plain about it and waiting for the ultimate moment will be even more enjoyable with a proper lubricant by the bed sweetie.

ms. tickle
BxBori163
Jun 3, 2009, 04:03 PM
thank you guys so much. im definitely going to take the advice given :)
tickle
Jun 3, 2009, 04:06 PM
thank you guys so much. im definitely going to take the advice given :)

thumbs up lovey !
LovesTheSun13
Jun 7, 2009, 01:37 PM
That could be cervical bruising. If it was yuor first time going for a long time AND being rough, then it's very possible. But remember, the first time is always the worst. As you go on, you'll become used to it.
Altenweg
Jun 7, 2009, 01:47 PM
That could be cervical bruising. If it was yuor first time going for a long time AND being rough, then it's very possible. But remember, the first time is always the worst. As you go on, you'll become used to it.

Please read before responding. The OP made it very clear that she's been sexually active with her boyfriend for a while now and everything was fine until this incident.

It pays to read the posts.