heidijoanne
May 25, 2009, 12:07 PM
Is questioning the advice of a senior member not ok on this site?
I realize how great it is to have members that are dedicating themselves to helping others with their problems...and I do appreciate that.
I myself like throwing in the odd piece of info I think I can help with but under no circumstances do I expect my word to become "truth" for anyone, that is for them to decide, and I would have no problem hearing or discussing how my opinion, or advice may not have worked for that person.
If so, is it because the site is trying to stay away from conflict?
And
If so, what if an expert at times doesnt give appropriate advice, (makes a mistake, took the question wrong, wasnt given enough info from the poster, etc) and the questioner takes this advice?
This question has nothing to do with my relationship post, I was being defensive (not rude or mean, just stating how it made me feel) and apologized, it happens.
It did however start me thinking about what ifs....
I realize how great it is to have members that are dedicating themselves to helping others with their problems...and I do appreciate that.
I myself like throwing in the odd piece of info I think I can help with but under no circumstances do I expect my word to become "truth" for anyone, that is for them to decide, and I would have no problem hearing or discussing how my opinion, or advice may not have worked for that person.
If so, is it because the site is trying to stay away from conflict?
And
If so, what if an expert at times doesnt give appropriate advice, (makes a mistake, took the question wrong, wasnt given enough info from the poster, etc) and the questioner takes this advice?
This question has nothing to do with my relationship post, I was being defensive (not rude or mean, just stating how it made me feel) and apologized, it happens.
It did however start me thinking about what ifs....





