Hi, i am 25. My hubby n I have been trying to have a baby since Jan 09. My periods have been very irregular.
My LMP was 28th March. we had sex on 12th, 14th n 16th day since LMP and also after that. we had sex whenever i ovulated.
I missed my periods but i am too scared to take a test. (Last time i had conceived in the tube n so it scares me) also since my cycle is irregular, i cannot really be sure i missed my periods.
i have a few symptoms of pregnancy
Sleeplessness
breast tenderness
food craving
dizziness
fatigue
but these symptoms sometimes occur before menses too.

I have vaginal discharge but it is a little thick than usual. n today there was some white discharge which was a little hard and looked a lot like steams on leaf. i donno how better i can describe it.

also, i usually get pimple or heat boil before my periods but i haven't got it still.

I dont want to keep my hopes high and then feel bad....

please tell me what to do,,,
should i wait as long as possible without doing nothing? should i take a pregnancy test? what should i take one if i am using Veocit, Ranbaxy...? when is the best time to take HCG? what should i do?

With Velocit, maybe wait another week and see if your period is just late this cycle....then test if need be.

It can be difficult since your periods are irregular, but if you don't have a period by the end of next week, or your possible pregnancy symptoms continue, try a test or see your doctor about a test there.

thank you DoulaLC,,,,

i have another doubt,,,

I lost my 1st born in Nov, she was jus 5 n half months old,,, since then i am finding it difficult to put my heart into anything,,, i used to be a great cook, now i hate doing it, i used to talk a lot, now m on the silent side, many such things have changed. My family doc feels i have depression but since we were trying for a baby, i was not given any medication,,,

will this change in me effect conceiving? or if i have conceived, will it effect my child...?

i am sure i will be back to normal once i m sure m preg,,, but that pain of losing a child will never go,,, will that have an effect,,,?