Feb 18, 2009, 01:13 PM
Here is my problem, I don't know how to be a girlfriend to a good guy. Up till now I have been with guys that treat me not good. They either tell me what to do, where to go, what to wear. They got mad when I had male friends and went out. I also have dated some guys who are very passive aggressive. But pretty much with both types of guys I end up waiting on them hand and foot, changing what I want to do so they don't get mad and catering to their every need to stop a fight from happening. But now I am starting a new relationship with a really good guy. But I don't know how to be his girlfriend. It makes him uncomfortabe for me to cater to him and he wants me to make decisions in what we do too. But I don't know how to do anything else but let the guy run the whole thing. So how do I change from being the lesser in a relationship to being the equal?