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ercfishy310
Jan 17, 2009, 12:53 PM
I'm thinking of becoming a Foster Parent. I would just like some insight, maybe from other parents in Michigan, that will help me answer some questions that I may have. I love kids and know that I can provide them with a warm, loving environment. I just am concerned with something's. Can anyone help me? Thanks.

startover22
Jan 17, 2009, 07:11 PM
What would you like to know, this is a pretty common thing among each state. To get the info you need it would be great if you could make a phone call to the Department of Human Services, they can give you a number to get started. You have questions? Ask away. And Kudos for wanting to help the kids that need it most;)
DHS - Foster Parenting (http://www.michigan.gov/dhs/0,1607,7-124-5452_7117-16476--,00.html) I really hope this website helps to get your ball rolling! Good luck!

ercfishy310
Jan 18, 2009, 08:23 AM
Are you a Foster Parent? Does it get really hard at times? Do you have a choice on the age of the child? Do you get to pick the level of the child (according to their medical needs)? These are some more questions that I have.

startover22
Jan 18, 2009, 11:17 AM
Are you a Foster Parent? Does it get really hard at times?
Not at this time. I was though, so, I will answer your next question.

Does it get really hard at times?
Yes, very hard. As it varies with every different child that comes into your home. If you don't want to be uncomfortable, or bothered or busy with all the things that come with fostering, then please do not do it.

Do you have a choice on the age of the child?
I suppose you could put an age group on your profile, yes.

Do you get to pick the level of the child? (according to their medical needs?)
YES, if you don't have the necessary training, you will not be put in a position to do something you are not able. BUT, that doesn't mean you are just going to get this golden child... these kids are abandoned by their parents in their mind... they are pissed, lonely, sad, embarrassed, uncomfortable, and no matter how sweet and loving you are, the feel as if they don't have anything to look forward to because they are always feeling "different"... there is more, but I will explain it later.

Seriously, it can be a very rewarding and sweet experience, but it can also add stress and be very confusing. It would really be great if you could go to a few support groups for foster parents in your area... good or hard to handle child, it will not matter, you will need a good support group. I sure wish I would have gone;)