ok well im in the 10th grade and with the way my family is, we move alot and and ive been going to this school for two years now an i have a best friend an other good friends an they love me even though im trying i cant seem to get close to them or open up to them . i quess you can say that i dont want the feeling of loosing the people i love any more because i no we will end up moving again .what do you think would help me?

Dealing with abandonment issues is very difficult. It is mature to be aware of your insecurity and where it stems from. You are at an age though where you will benefit from letting friends into your life and also at an age where if you do move it will be easy for you to keep in touch and with the use of technology it is easier than ever. Do not be afraid to share your feelings with others and even with your parents about moving again, although they may not be able to prevent the move they should be able to appreciate your feelings about the situation. You can always keep in touch with the friends you make and you have an opportunity to make lots of new friends along the way. Good luck. :)