My partner and I spent the 1st 2 yrs drinkging daily and this only created drama and discourse. We've been sober 3mo and I feel emotionally flat towards him. I love him and life is SO much simpler, but I need advice on how to re-light the fire b/n us. I'm restless and discontent (as usual,) but I want advice on how to kick this feeling and begin enjoying sober activities together.....that I actually remember this time!

Well get involved in soemthing that you guys might like to do. You just have to also be more creative, I had the same problem when i became clean then i statred going to aa i found a great group of friends we go out all the time there is always something going on with aa, its not all structure and business its a place to stay sober meet some great people and have some fun...

Congratulations on being sober. I am genuinely happy for you. I have every faith and confidence in you to resolve your (new) relationship issues.

How to spice it up? No clue from me. Let's just say I'm 3 months behind you, and counting. Good luck. God bless.