elizabethrey
Aug 16, 2008, 02:16 PM
Dear forum,
Can someone tell me how to get my sister to leave my house. I recently went through 3 years of probate in which my grandfather left me everything he owned (his home) and had me also as executor of his will.
Long story short... my sister has been living there for free with her current boyfriend (who buys marijuana regularly) and 3 children (2, 10, 19) during this whole time. The house is literally being destroyed and no repairs of any kind are being done (ex. Bathroom has no sink, toilet is flushed by string tied to inside,kitchen sink is leaking so bad that a bucket is being used under it catch the water,etc.)
I recently was going to hire a management co. to do the eviction and find tenants that would take care of the home, not destroy it, and in doing so, they sent me info. On "Lead Poisoning" since it's a 1947 house. I would never want to rent the home out to anyone if it has lead based paint in it! I searched online for any state run programs to remedy the problem since I am low-income. The Maravilla foundation of L.A. would take care of this problem for me... BUT when they went to inspect to see if there were high enough levels of lead present in the house, my sister refused to allow the inspector in. I had notified her of his visit. He did manage to check the outside windows,front door and surrounding wood and is said to contain lead!
I have never given her any permission to live there for free, there is no agreement of any kind, just the contrary... I have kindly asked her to leave on and off verbally over the phone for the past 3 years. She refuses and says she does not want me to benefit from anything. There is a lot of jealousy towards me and my family since I left home when I got married and started a life on my own (I'm the eldest). I also purchased my own home as well. I was very close to my grandfather (God rest his soul) and this was the reason why he left me with everything... besides the fact that he was ill treated by the rest of my siblings (I won't even get into that).
I recently just served her a 60-day tenant-at-will notice, because I was told that even if she has never paid anything, it was the legal thing to do. She called to tell me that legally the notice I had someone serve her was just a warning, not legal. She also told me that she can stay there another 6 months if she wants to because there is no rental agreement of any sort. She said that if I didn't to agree to allow her to stay there for at least 6 mo. That she would go back to her lawyer friend and get help. At this point I cannot afford much for legal counsel, so if someone knows where I could possibly get help with this in the Los Angeles county, please let me know!
This ordeal has been very stressful and financially draining for me and my family. I have been paying taxes and insurance on two houses. I would really appreciate some advice here if possible.
Thanks!
Can someone tell me how to get my sister to leave my house. I recently went through 3 years of probate in which my grandfather left me everything he owned (his home) and had me also as executor of his will.
Long story short... my sister has been living there for free with her current boyfriend (who buys marijuana regularly) and 3 children (2, 10, 19) during this whole time. The house is literally being destroyed and no repairs of any kind are being done (ex. Bathroom has no sink, toilet is flushed by string tied to inside,kitchen sink is leaking so bad that a bucket is being used under it catch the water,etc.)
I recently was going to hire a management co. to do the eviction and find tenants that would take care of the home, not destroy it, and in doing so, they sent me info. On "Lead Poisoning" since it's a 1947 house. I would never want to rent the home out to anyone if it has lead based paint in it! I searched online for any state run programs to remedy the problem since I am low-income. The Maravilla foundation of L.A. would take care of this problem for me... BUT when they went to inspect to see if there were high enough levels of lead present in the house, my sister refused to allow the inspector in. I had notified her of his visit. He did manage to check the outside windows,front door and surrounding wood and is said to contain lead!
I have never given her any permission to live there for free, there is no agreement of any kind, just the contrary... I have kindly asked her to leave on and off verbally over the phone for the past 3 years. She refuses and says she does not want me to benefit from anything. There is a lot of jealousy towards me and my family since I left home when I got married and started a life on my own (I'm the eldest). I also purchased my own home as well. I was very close to my grandfather (God rest his soul) and this was the reason why he left me with everything... besides the fact that he was ill treated by the rest of my siblings (I won't even get into that).
I recently just served her a 60-day tenant-at-will notice, because I was told that even if she has never paid anything, it was the legal thing to do. She called to tell me that legally the notice I had someone serve her was just a warning, not legal. She also told me that she can stay there another 6 months if she wants to because there is no rental agreement of any sort. She said that if I didn't to agree to allow her to stay there for at least 6 mo. That she would go back to her lawyer friend and get help. At this point I cannot afford much for legal counsel, so if someone knows where I could possibly get help with this in the Los Angeles county, please let me know!
This ordeal has been very stressful and financially draining for me and my family. I have been paying taxes and insurance on two houses. I would really appreciate some advice here if possible.
Thanks!