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exbestfriend
Jun 18, 2008, 06:34 AM
hi i was just wondering when will be the safest day or week to have you know with my partne... we always use condoms and we wanter to try not using them but im not yet taking pills though ... so i was just wondering how it like u know with condoms but im just so curious how do we know its safe? dont worry guys im 24 im not minor here is that i dont know whome to ask....

pyramid girl
Jun 18, 2008, 07:02 AM
hi i was just wondering when will be the safest day or week to have you know with my partne... we always use condoms and we wanter to try not using them but im not yet taking pills though ... so i was just wondering how it like u know with condoms but im just so curious how do we know its safe? dont worry guys im 24 im not minor here is that i dont know whome to ask....
Hi, exbest friend
Count ten days including the first day of your period this is the safest to have S....... and 10 days after that is the dangerous period. Once you passed this period then it safe again, to have S......

I guarantee you it works, i used this for almost 15 years,and until now.
i don't use any contraceptives anymore.

StephanyM
Jun 18, 2008, 07:15 AM
Well, the safest way would be to use a condom until you start birth control but if you know when you ovulate then you can "try to" avoid sex on those days. Most women ovulate 14 days before their next period is due and they have a 2-5 day window of getting pregnant since sperm can live a few days inside you.

exbestfriend
Jun 18, 2008, 07:21 AM
wow okey so generally its also not safe before the period start right ?for example 5 days before...hmmm but usually im not that exact sometimes im over a week before i had my period....thanks so much yeah i heard alot of side effects for contraception but eventually i think i need to consult a ob about it just to make sure also but for now i will try this thanks so much pyramid girl

Altenweg
Jun 18, 2008, 07:35 AM
Every women is different and ovulates at different times, so there is no "safe" time to have unprotected sex. Get on the pill, use a condom, and don't have unprotected sex until you are ready to have a child.

exbestfriend
Jun 24, 2008, 05:59 PM
girls thanks so much for the replies trully appreciated...

Fr_Chuck
Jun 24, 2008, 06:25 PM
agreed, there is no safe time, even with condoms there is about a 10 percent chance of failure, and people can and have gotten pregnant using condoms and the pill.