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SillyMe23
May 5, 2008, 10:58 AM
I have been on birth control for years. My boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago and I started seeing my ex. My ex and I had unprotected sex mar. 7. I got my period mar. 12. My boyfriend and I decided to make things work and got back together. I stopped taked my pills mar. 18 and got my period again mar. 25 i guess cuz of hormones? my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex mar. 25 hours b4 my period came on the second time. and we continued to have unprotected sex after my period ended. i recently took a pregnancy test and it came back positive :O . my ov. calendars show that my conception day was apr. 8. i'm just curious. kinda paranoid. my boyfriend would be the father right? i haven't seen/been with/talked to my ex since our mar. 7 encounter. I guess it would be obvious that it's my boyfriends. I just haven't been with anybody else unprotected since we met almost 8 years ago. We've been going through some things and I made a mistake. Even though I was on birth control and didn't get off 'til mar. 18th, I keep thinking that my ex's sperm would've hung around? lol...I know. I guess I'm being stupid. My boyfriend and I are working things out and I just wanna put my ex and all his mess behind me.

twinkiedooter
May 5, 2008, 11:09 AM
It's the boyfriend. No sperm from the ex could last that long.

this8384
May 6, 2008, 01:59 PM
Did you actually have your period on the 12th or were you only spotting? If you were only spotting, then there's a good possibility that your ex may have impregnated you. It seems odd that you would have 2 periods in 2 weeks.

I would say that if there's any doubt in your mind whatsoever, get a paternity test after the baby is born. It's scary, but that way you'll have a definite answer.

J_9
May 6, 2008, 02:43 PM
Unfortunately there is no way to tell 100% at this point. You will have to have a paternity test done once the baby is born.

Fr_Chuck
May 6, 2008, 02:48 PM
Yes, guessing the time of conception is good but not exact, so it could be either, I don't beleive you couild claim either 100 percent without having a test done after the baby is born.