ok i am totally desperate for some gud advice here coz this problem has jus been ongoing and totally frustating...so hia goes! ok im a young woman and have often shaved or waxed my pubic region for special occasions - usually its jus a trim to keep things neat - anyhow no matter wat shaving creams/moisterizers/after waxing-shaving gels etc i use..i always get lil bumps everywhere and it gets really grosse and red & itchy and NOT so hot anymore after just the first day of having my privates hair free...i'v also noticed that its now getting darker in that particular region...does ANYONE have any advice???????????

Next time shave downward, somehow it just works better that way. For your problem of darker tone down there.. You will need a Bikini Gel, its made for bikini area to whitening and soften its color.

When I shave I don't use any cream and I don't get a rash or anything. :)

Yes yolanda_lee is right bikini gel will help with the coloring, but also the rashes will subside after the first month.

have you ever use nair sensitive hair remover it works...

-it for legs arms underarms and bikini area.
-me and my friends use it.
-you can find it at CVS[pharmacy]. or any other.
-it on sale at CVs for 3.95 check it out. no shaving or waxing.

-its good on the bikini area.

so the bikini gels doesnt help with the irritation for me, personally.
I cant use nair or anything like it bc im allergic to it.
And i cant afford getting waxed, plus last time i did that, i was very bruised.

I need to do something since it is summer and i want to wear swimsuits, but it just looks very gross and embarassig.

Does anyone have an idea for what i could do?

I use a wonderful product called Bikini Zone. After you shave/wax what ever you may feel like doing that day it provides light medication to that area to prevent irritation.:)

one time somebody told me that deoderent helps get rid of the bumps but idk