I experienced the following with my 44-year old guy. His responses aren't very mature for someone his age. Or…could it be he is just trying to tell me he is not that interested?

(1) After a really good date, I sent him a flirty text message saying I really liked the way he laid his kisses on me the night before. After 2 days with no response, I asked him why he hadn't responded. His response was: "I didn't know what to say. I know I am making this harder than it should be, huh? You make me nervous."

(2) During a phone conversation, I asked why I hadn't heard from him in a couple of days. His response was: "I don't know...you always seem like everything is perfect". (What kind of answer is this?) :confused:

(3) I invite him to a co-worker's dinner party on a Saturday. We go and have a great time. I don't hear from him again until the following Tuesday and it's via email. It reads: "Thanks for inviting me out on Saturday. I really had a good time." He didn’t need to thank me for inviting him out. I just would have rather he called, rather than email because it seemed so impersonal.

:(

Well.. he could be one of those guys who just doesn't call.

Question is, does he ask you to see him?

If it seems too one-sided, then yes... he may just not be that into you. But also, it could be inexperienced.

Sounds like he may be shy... or, he may just be one of those elusive gentlemen!

This doesn't sound like immaturity on his part.