As long as you are both exclusively dating each other, even sleeping with each other and basically acting like a couple, how long seems normal to date some one with out having that official title? If you look like a couple and act like a couple should you just roll with it and see what happens. Thing is that when you are official you get those "unsaid" boundries and knowing were to stand in certain situations like public affection, opposite sex interaction etc etc? Thoughts? Cause it can get hard when one person expects more?

Just remember, why would someone buy the cow when he can get the milk for free. As long as you are doing everything for and to him, there is no reason for him to commit. Sorry, sex before marriage is not the best way to get to a marriage.