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juliana27
Jan 11, 2008, 01:31 PM
Hi well I met this guy for awhile already. I was married when we started talking. I am now separated and kept talking to him and seeing him someimes. He has said to me that he cares for me more than I can imagain. As time went by my feeling for him grew deeper. I decided to tell him by a text everything I felt for him. I remember saying if you don't reply I will understand. I also said don't reply if your not giving me a chance. The following day he text me and put. I will talk to you face to face about it. I replied and said. I told you not to reply if you were not giving me a chance.It will be hard to talk to you if you reject me please understand. He didn't reply. 4 days passed and he text me and said hey? I didn't reply 2 days later he text and put why are you not anwering me? I put you know. He said I miss you. Well to make it shoter I told him that I rather no talk to him because he knows how I feel for him and that I want to forget about him. All he said was Im sorry, I wish you knew how I felt about you. But I won't bother you anymore then, just remember that I miss you. I don't know I'm confuse. He seemed to care for me but then again he didn't stop me from saying good bye. But said I MISS YOU...

Fr_Chuck
Jan 11, 2008, 01:34 PM
Well first you "texted" your feelings? These are things you talk about face to face.

1. may not have gotten your tex
2. may have deleted it by error
3. some men don't like talking about feelings
4. he may seem to thing it is rushing things

Next is he married ? And of course you are stll married also, some men want you to be really single.

So you know a cell phone also calls people, in 1/2 the time it takes to text a message you can actually call them. If you had texted me a inportant thing like your feelings, I believe I would be a little insulted you did not feel it important enough to actually talk about but was OK to text.

juliana27
Jan 11, 2008, 01:48 PM
Im wanting to talk to him. But I was the one that told him that I rather not talk to him. Because I had feelings for him. How do you think he feels? He said that he misses me..

talaniman
Jan 11, 2008, 08:37 PM
how do you think he feels? He said that he misses me..

You'll never know, since you aren't talking to him, and refused, for whatever reasons. I'd never call you back either.