Hi fermina

I am with a married man too, I would never judge you. Mine is here and lives with his wife. The only thing is his a bit of a ladies man. Its not even the wife that is the problem sometimes, Its him talking about all the other women his bedded and last year, I found out that he had been romancing a woman abroad, when we went back to our country for a romantic holiday in paradise. They had been going out since the eighties, He says its over, but I don't believe him and cannot stand the thought of him returning there. He says he is returning in July, and I am already feeling sick and very depressed about it. I get sick and depressed about him all the time so I know what you going through, I am 27 by the way and he is 50. Some of my friends tell me that he is blowing his trumpet to make me feel scared of losing him, but I don't know.

Every waking moment is about him. Sometimes I cannot eat or drink worrying about whether he will find another women. He says that there are loads opf women who would put up with his situation, and young ones at that!

Soemtimes I don't know what to do, If a man was cheating, would he talk about other women that way? Or is he just trying to make me feel insecure? What about this woman abroad? Am helpless

You said: "He says he is returning in july, and I am already feeling sick and very depressed about it." Why don't I believe you?

He is returning our country in July. He goes back every year sometimes without his wife and other times with her. He will never take him again though cause he said that his wife has found out that he took me there as she is from there also. But sometimes I think he is saying that cause I found out about that woman. Am already worried about it. Its mad! I really do love this guy but if he was a player would he be so open about it?

Every waking moment is about him. Sometimes I cannot eat or drink worrying about whether he will find another women. He says that there are loads opf women who would put up with his situation, and young ones at that!
He is right, he found you to cheat with, he can find others. Peice of cake.
Soemtimes I don't know what to do,
How about getting your own man?? Who doesn't cheat.
If a man was cheating, would he talk about other women that way?
Why not, what have you ever done about it, besides lose sleep, and stop eating?
Or is he just trying to make me feel insecure?
You mean more insecure, don't you. He doesn't care about anything, but your sex. Don't confuse that with love.
What about this woman abroad?
She probably is as clueless as you are, She gives him good sex too.
Am helpless
Yes you are, for as long as you give him sex, if you don't, he will find someone else to cheat with. Get a clue please, your a peice of meat, he gets when he wants it. He has told you so.

Get away from this man. All he is going to do for you is give you a disease there is no cure for. He is a pig.