i just got my hair highlighted (i had dark red hair) they were supposed to put blonde highlights in it, but they pretty much dyed it blonde and i hate it. the color i had does not come in a bottle as they say, so is there a solution that can take out the highlights with out dyeing it?

Sweetie, if your hair was bleached, you can't take out the highlights, but you can tone down the color by re-coloring your hair with a darker shade. If you're not happy with the results, you should go back to the salon and have them fix your hair. Most salons will fix their mistakes free of charge.