Josie1966
Dec 15, 2007, 09:01 AM
I thought I had found Mr. Right... I was fooled.
Long story short...
I was dating this guy for about one year and 6 months and just find out he was married.
Yes, we went out and great restaurants kissing and hugging, go away on trips, meet most of his friends... now the killer, been to his house. Called him at home and his cell no matter what time. We were even planning to buy a house together and have kids. That is what he talk about all the time... having children with me... You know that is music to a single woman in her 40's that wants to be married and have kids. Meet my family and send holidays together.
We are not kids I am 40 and he is 50... we are both very busy professional with our careers therefore we didn't see each other every day. Plus, have a 7 year old at home that is very important too me.
What made me question if he was married... is one day he stood me up.
That never happen... the first time him gave me a stupid story... he claim he got drunk and with is colleagues at work and fell asleep.
This happen again six month later... he stood me up again with a phone call. Therefore, broke it off. We had dinner because he wanted to explain what happen... I just guest it... that is was married at that time. He just put his head down and stated he was married.
This is a man I date for also 2 years and I really didn't have a clue... I fell in love with this person... I think it was so unfair that I didn't have a choice... I would never in a million years go out with a married man. Dam, I really hate him for that.
You know I wanted to kill that bastard right then and there. I got up took my handbag like a lady and walk out of the restaurant.
I was married once and yes, my husband had cheated on me... therefore I do know how the other women might be feel. I had made a promise to never date a married man.
But, I do have to say it... It so hard for me to walk away. I know time do help. I just love him so much and during the holidays it is even harder.
My foolish question... why do men play with women hearts?
Long story short...
I was dating this guy for about one year and 6 months and just find out he was married.
Yes, we went out and great restaurants kissing and hugging, go away on trips, meet most of his friends... now the killer, been to his house. Called him at home and his cell no matter what time. We were even planning to buy a house together and have kids. That is what he talk about all the time... having children with me... You know that is music to a single woman in her 40's that wants to be married and have kids. Meet my family and send holidays together.
We are not kids I am 40 and he is 50... we are both very busy professional with our careers therefore we didn't see each other every day. Plus, have a 7 year old at home that is very important too me.
What made me question if he was married... is one day he stood me up.
That never happen... the first time him gave me a stupid story... he claim he got drunk and with is colleagues at work and fell asleep.
This happen again six month later... he stood me up again with a phone call. Therefore, broke it off. We had dinner because he wanted to explain what happen... I just guest it... that is was married at that time. He just put his head down and stated he was married.
This is a man I date for also 2 years and I really didn't have a clue... I fell in love with this person... I think it was so unfair that I didn't have a choice... I would never in a million years go out with a married man. Dam, I really hate him for that.
You know I wanted to kill that bastard right then and there. I got up took my handbag like a lady and walk out of the restaurant.
I was married once and yes, my husband had cheated on me... therefore I do know how the other women might be feel. I had made a promise to never date a married man.
But, I do have to say it... It so hard for me to walk away. I know time do help. I just love him so much and during the holidays it is even harder.
My foolish question... why do men play with women hearts?