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Nakash
Dec 9, 2005, 04:56 PM
Hi
Please help me out here, I am really tensed, I am 15 but everyone says to me that you look about 11-12, so please give me tips to grow really really fast and look older than my age, please I really apreiciate that, I have came 2 this web site only for your help... IF U Won't HELP ME... THEN WHO WILL!

Please please help me
Thanks

nymphetamine
Dec 9, 2005, 06:09 PM
Okay I asked this question once. There may be a few things you have to change like your choice of clothing and the color, how you apply your makeup and what type you use, your attitude, how is your posture. It could be something simple as a hair cut or trim. Do you perhaps have a picture. There isn't any magic formula that can make you grow up and look older. You'll probably always look younger than you are. Send us a pic if you can so we can get a better idea on how to help you.

Fr_Chuck
Dec 9, 2005, 07:03 PM
Ok, first while it is not what you want to hear, 3 years one way or another when you are 30, no one will ever care or notice.

Next a lot of times it is in the way you dress ( take a look in a mirror, are you dressing more like a teen, have you addressed your hair style

Next while looks are part of the age look, but the way you present yourself, the way you speak all have issues to the way people take you.

An example is your post itself. A few spelling issues but the slang itself makes even your writing appear to be someone younger.

You are often judged by everything, not just appearance

talaniman
Dec 9, 2005, 07:37 PM
If you are 15 could you explain how a 15 year old can have the occupation of an engineer?View personal profile-noreference as to gender either! :confused:

fredg
Dec 10, 2005, 07:42 AM
Hi,
You asked if someone here won't help you, who will?
The only person who can help you is yourself.
How you feel about yourself, accept you as you, and be happy with it, is the key to happiness and well being.
You have many yrs left, and I'll bet that when you are 20, you will wonder whatever happened to people thinking I am younger!
Give yourself some time, and don't try to "grow up" fast. It will happen before you know it. I do wish you good luck, and just be yourself.

lilfyre
Dec 10, 2005, 07:55 AM
This is almost the same question that was posted in another spot


height problem
Hi
plz help me out here, i am really tensed, i am 17 girl but every1 sayz 2 me dat u look about 11-12, my height is exact 5, so plz give me tips to grow really really fast and look older than my age, plz i really apreiciate that, i have came 2 this web site only for ur help..............IF U WONT HELP ME...THEN


plz plz help me
thnx so, i will do not do this often, but i will anser it the same way :o You should be happy to look younger than you are when you get to my age, you will wish you still looked younger than you are. Height, weight, and body style, are all hereditary. You can do what the other member has told you to do which is very. You can also try high heels wearing, make up, changing your hair style, or even they way you dress. I know you want to look at least your age but try to look at it as a gift also.

Chery
Dec 10, 2005, 08:16 AM
Hi
plz help me out here, i am really tensed, i am 15 but every1 sayz 2 me dat u look about 11-12, so plz give me tips to grow really really fast and look older than my age, plz i really apreiciate that, i have came 2 this web site only for ur help..............IF U WONT HELP ME...THEN WHO WILL !!

plz plz help me
thnxYou are 15 and you want to be 21 right now?? There are some who wish they were your age, so please stop being silly and wanting to rush things. You will have to face the fact that we all grow normally, go through the teen years and still survive. You will also survive this, believe me.

Chery
Dec 11, 2005, 10:48 AM
All teens, boys or girls that want to grow up fast should be glad that they don't have to 'age' so quickly as along with age comes more responsibility. If your current 'friend' says you look younger, so what, it's what you've got inside, not out. Looks are not everything and you will soon come to realize this.
At any rete, please take life one day at a time and relax. Happy Holidays!

Nakash
Dec 11, 2005, 01:02 PM
You are Rite
But the real thing is that its not my friend who says that...

Its someone who is so special to me.. a girl who I love a lot.. she is 2 months younger than me but I look younger.. please help
Please help
Please help
And there is nothing what can make me forget ab8 this topic
So
Please
Thanks

Chery
Dec 11, 2005, 03:29 PM
U R Rite
but the real thing is that its not my friend who says that....

its someone who is so special 2 me.. a girl who i love alot.. she is 2 months younger than me but i look younger.. plz help
plz help
plz help
and there is nothing what can make me 4get ab8 this topic
so
please
thnxYou've gotton some decent advice on this thread, and if your girlfriend, (which is probably one of many more to come at your age) is not satisfied with how you look, dump her and find someone who accepts you the way you are. Don't let any girl stress you out just to please her, it's not worth it. Find a girl who likes you the way you are and then you both can have some good, safe, and clean fun together instead of constantly being distracted by looks. It's either that, or pay out a lot of money to have plastic surgery which you'll regret too. So do some serious thinking about your life and what you want for your future and concentrate on important things like a good education and a job you like doing, instead of pleasing a girl who will change her mind or find something wrong with every guy she dates.
Good Luck.
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talaniman
Dec 11, 2005, 04:22 PM
You again?with all the advice when will you listen to it? :confused: :cool:

Nakash
Dec 13, 2005, 08:12 AM
I can never forget her wotever happens and I'll do anything to have her love

At least you can tell me how I can create a place in her heart then
Please

Nakash
Dec 13, 2005, 08:14 AM
I cannot forget her wotever happens

At least u can tell me how I can create a place in her heart
Please
Please
Help
Thanks

Chery
Dec 13, 2005, 08:24 AM
i can never forget her wotever happens and i'll do anything to have her love

at least you can tell me how i can create a place in her heart then
plzHoney, that's exactly what I said about my first boyfriend, and guess what, we talk with each other today and laugh about the 'good old times'. We've both been married to different people, have had several other relationships and are still alive - how about that? We have a place in our hearts for each other, but believe me, there is a lot of room in one's heart for other loves as well and also fond memories of those we leave behind on our journey. Separation sometimes hurts, but it's the fond memories that keep helping the healing process, so please face the facts that all of us do. The first love is not always the last and you should not deny yourself inner peace and not let any woman redicule you because you 'look too young'. She will probably always think of looks first, then money, and then she might just care about the poor bloke some day. Don't let any woman destroy you before you've even begun to live..

http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/8/8_2_103.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZN)Get untangled, please!

Chery
Dec 13, 2005, 08:40 AM
i cannot 4get her wotever happens

at least u can tell me how i can create a place in her heart
plz
plz
help
thnxThere should be no hard work at all in 'creating' a place in anyone'w heart, if they choose to place you there. I just don't think she is serious about having you in her heart right now. She probably, being young, will take a long time before she lets anyone but herself into that heart of her's, so I really don't know what else to tell you. You CANNOT force these things, they either happen or the don't. Sorry, but that is the fact of life!

DJ 'H'
Dec 13, 2005, 08:47 AM
I am 21yrs old and on odd occasions I get ID'd for ciggies (you have be 16yrs old to buy them), I have been ID'd getting into a club before (you have to be 18yrs old) - this is due to the choice of clothing I wore on those days. It was more a case that I could not be arsed to to make much of an effort and wore my hair like I used to to when I was a teenager.

When I do actually make an effort (which is 99.9% of the time) - as I do take pride in my appearance then I have no trouble at all.

So it could be that an changing your image slightly will help - a new hair cut that sort of thing. But I really would not worry too much about what other people think - it's what you think that counts.

Nakash
Dec 14, 2005, 04:22 PM
Thanks 4 everything...
But can you aleast give me a list of food, fruits and all other kinds of stuff what can help me grow fast please
Please.. plz.. plz
This will be a lot for me
Thanks Xxx
Thanks

Chery
Dec 17, 2005, 06:59 AM
http://www.newstarget.com/nutrition.html

http://www.chefs.com/

The above are free nutrition and recipie guides, If there are anabolic or orther quick growing sites you're looking for, then you will have to look for them yourself and suffer the health debilitating consequences, as you'll not get them from any respectable person on this site. If I were you, I would live life one day at a time, grow normally, and not be so darned obsessed with trying to make your starndard healthy life accelerate just to kill yourself quick. So either get your head on straight and forget about this foolisheness and let nature take it's course, or take drastic measures and die early. That's a cold hard fact - get used to it. Normal proteins and vitamins from regular food is good enough all you have to do is let nature take it's course. Anyone else (except for you doctor) that tells you anything else will only take your money and will not care about the damage you do to your health.
P.S. if you are dumb enough to take steroids, guess what, you will be of no use to any girl, as your sex drive will vanish, or you'll have a heart attack trying, so it's your choice. I hope you make the right one.

http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/7/7_1_106v.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZN)Quick muscles and growth can kill! Do you think Tom Cruz or Michael J. Fox worry about their height? So any girl who does not accept you the way you are is not worth it.
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talaniman
Dec 17, 2005, 08:04 AM
Bless you ladies for your hearts of gold. You have a lot more patients than I do!:cool: :rolleyes:

Chery
Dec 17, 2005, 08:34 AM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/images/reputation/reputation_neg.gifAge problem (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?p=63516#post63516)Dec 14, 2005 11:25 PMNakash (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/member.php?u=25929)please try to understand still... I love a girl... dats why I'm doing this

If this is what we get from a young man who thinks he's in love and you tell him the truth about life, then where are we going? If the truth hurts, take those steroids and see where they get you. She'll be gone before you can get your health back, if at all, then you'll maybe open your eyes.

fredg
Dec 17, 2005, 08:49 AM
Hi,
The last post by Chery gave some very good advice.
You have only two options:
1. Keep going the way you are and stay in misery, or
2. Find yourself a girl who will like you for who you are.

You can keep posting your question at various sites on the web, but you will still keep getting the same answers! There is no "instant fix" to your problem.
The girl you like may or may not be for you. If you keep worrying about it, it will overcome you, and you will stay very unhappy.
Please get out and meet some new girls, and you will eventually find one who is honest, respectful, caring, and really likes you!
There are many, many people who ask basically the same type of question here; that is, I like her, but she doesn't like me. Please read some of the other questions asked in the same category, and you will see a lot of the same answers.

DJ 'H'
Jan 10, 2006, 09:41 AM
You sound rather obsessive about this girl, rather than in love? Perhaps she gives you the attention you are in need of where no-one else will.

Either way it sound like you need some professional counseling or something. You should like yourself for who you are as a person and you should want to be with someone that also likes you for who you are.

Your appearance should not matter to them!! It's what's on the inside that counts.

Chery
Jan 13, 2006, 06:17 PM
The point here is that no man or woman should try and change their appearance to please others, period. The only ones they should change for is themselves, without outside interference. If a woman tells you all the little things that are wrong with you - ask her is there is anything at all that she likes! - If another person cannot accept you the way you are then they are not worth your time or energy.
And if they do not like you for who, instead of what, you are, then they are just using you or playing a mean joke. If you let them play with you just to be accepted, make sure your life-insurance premiums are paid and that someone worthwhile will benefit from the foolish actions you are inflicting on your body. Face it, you still will grow, take your time - being a grown-up with all the responsibilities that go with it is not at all a piece of cake - not in this world today. You can in the meantime concentrate on your education, go to the gym and do some normal weight lifting to build up muscles normally, and enjoy being a youth because once an adult, if you get there, you will probably wish you could find the fountain of youth. Get real and start enjoying what comes natural to a young man your age, please.

Hope you are not doing anything foolish just to please a vain little girl who needs a trophy by her side - she's not worth it.

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talaniman
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