Hi there,
I'll start out with the dates...
October 1st, i had my period (start day). October 6th i had to take the morning after pill. then october 16th my former partner and i had unprotected sex again cancelling out the pill. Its now december 1st and i still have no period. could i be pregnant? i hate this waiting game ...

any help would be great :)

Why would you continue having unprotected sex? Learn your lesson, dear! Anyways, yes it's possible, and it's also possible that the pill is just messing up your cycle. Go see a doctor.

i took another test and its negative again. i looked up my 'suggested' conception date and it just so happens to be th 16th of october. it said i would be 9 weeks pregnant... but today i had brown spotting..i tried to go to the clinic but the nurse wouldnt admit me - she said if the home tests said negative then they are right... im not sure what to do now other than wait..got to love the healthcare system.

Go see a real doctor, that lady at the clinic is irresponsible, even if youre not pregant there may be something else going on.

Yes you could be pregnant, you can buy a home pregnancy test to confirm either way. But the bigger issue here is that you are not doing what you should to protect your health and to prevent pregnancy. From the sounds of things you are also putting your self at risk for a STD. Unprotected sex with a former partner! Who else has he been with? You need an exam, a STD screen, hormone levels, etc. Then you need a frank discussion with your health care provider on how to safe guard your reproductive health.

charlottee I deleted your last post, I found it uncalled for toward a new member.

First the post is not that old, only within the last two weeks, and often hearing simular advice from several people helps them know this is good advice. not sure why you had a problem with others being helpful and answering the question.

But yes dear, the morning after is not a birth control method but used for emergancy times. If you are going to be sexually active please find and use perhaps at least two methods since no one is 100 percent.

I know but this girl has posted basically the same thing as the other people on several theads now. I apologize if you thought it was out of line, I just find it irritating.