Nov 9, 2007, 10:28 AM
My daughter met this guy about 3 weeks ago and they have really hot it off. He has been so nice to her. He calls her all the time, wants to see her everyday, texts her Good Morning Beautiful, calls her terms of endearments...such as babe, darlin, kisses and hugs her, tells her he wants her to go camping with him and sleep under the stars...oh and did I mention he is gorgeous! He is almost 21 and my daughter is 19. She asked him last night what their relationship was and he said well we are friends and I don't think I want a relationship. He had his first girlfriend at age 19 and was really hurt by her and ended it in August so he is really gun shy and afraid of getting hurt. That is understandable but why is he acting like he is so into her and acting like they are in a relationship and saying the opposite? My daughter says she can tell he has feelings for her and she definitely does for him, so what is she to do? He even tells her how much his mom likes her. UGH! I hate when she gets hurt! Any advice you could give her?