I m ganna straight forword..I love my wife so much and I m crazy about her although I had so many relationships before I met my wife but still she is so special as she is now..and accourding to she keeps saying that she loves me too very mush ..but with a way I cannt see her love comparing with what she tells me about it..

She is in U.S.A and I live in another country , but she is barely txt me a day..or call me..unless I ask her to call me or to start txting me..

I did so many crazy things to her ..I spent 5000 dollars in Valentine's day, but still I m not getting what I m looking for..

Do you think that I m asking for more..or what?

You have to define what you mean by being loved. You are distant apart and probably communication might be a problem with her. Maybe you need to initiate frequent communication yourself. How much you spend on her might not matter as this might not determine how much you love her. I think play your part in as far as communication is concerned and see what happens.