i had my last period during the third week of april this yr 07. it is july 9 07 today and i still did not get my period. in the week of june 25 i started getting some mild cramps but there was only brown discharge and towards the end there was just some streaks of red blood. that lasted abt 4 5 days. i still did not get my period but i feel bloated all the time. i am 20 yrs old and i have been getting irregular periods. ive never had sex but abt 3 weeks ago i met my bf and he sucked on my breasts and we did some touching. i was feeling up on his penis and there was some discharge. it was like water but im not sure if it was sperm or not. he says its not and its just precum cuz it was veyr liquidy. can all these things; him sucking on my breasts, me touching his precum indicate me being pregnant or me not getting my period? can sucking on breasts delay periods or can u pregnant? i cant figure out the reason why i have not been getting my period. in the week of june i was stressed out but before or after that i cant figure out why i havent gotten it. also now, there is just some clear white-ish discharge when i whipe only. whats going on?

Sucking on your breasts cannot get you pregnant. There is sperm in precum, but you would have to be having sex for it to even get you pregnant. The only way you can get pregnant, besides artificial insemination, is to have sex. Brown discharge is usually an indicator of old blood, which could have been your period. A white discharge usually indicates you are ovulating, nothing to worry about there. Stress and diet, among other things, can cause you to miss your period. If you are really worried about this, go to your doctor and have him do a physical, just to clear your head :)

thanks a lot. i feel a bit relieved.

You're welcome! :)

how long should i wait to see when i get my period btw?

Are you taking any kind of birth control? This could throw your periods off. If you do not get your period in the next week or so, go see your doctor to find out what the problem is. :)

By the way, how much of the brown discharge did you have? Was it heavy or light?

no i am not taking any type of birth control. and i never had sexual intercourse.

And how much of the brown discharge came out? Sometimes old blood is brown in color and we can mistake it for an infection or something.

i "feel" as if im pregnant. even tho i never had sexual intercourse. i was paranoid cuz of the whole precum thing so i started reading abt pregnancy symptoms and it turns out i have pretty much most of the symptoms! idk wht it is im goign crazy thinking im pregnant and its really stressing me out. idk what to do.

You have to have sexual intercourse to be pregnant. There are a lot of pregnancy symptoms that are also the symptoms to other things. You are stressing yourself out way too much and this could be the reason for the delay in your period. :)

if i got the brown discharge in the 20's of june and it lasted til june 2nd does that mean that was my period? if so then i have to wait till aug again to get my period again right?

Was it light brown, or dark? That seems like it would be a long period, that might have actually been your ovulation period, which means your period is on its way! :)

the brown discharge was only when i whiped. it wasnt on my underwear or anything at all. it was a little not a lot and towards the end it was when i had red blood streaks which again was not enough to be called a regular period.

it was light and brown. sometimes it would come in clogs like a lot stuck together. after how long when u ovulate do u get ur period that way i know when i should be expecting it.

Actually it should be coming any day now. Just wait, and relax, do not stress! :)

And another tip, start calculating your cycles on a calendar so you know when to expect it! :)

im still getting white clear discharge when im white. its no longer brown that ended on july 2nd. does fingering or rubbing ur vagina over clothing and sucking on breasts at this time when im ovulating like u said delay it even MORE? like if i get fingered like that or my breasts get sucked on would that affect my health?

No it wont affect your health, you will be just fine. And it wont delay your period either. Its just a waiting game, just relax about it. If you are concerned go see your doctor. The clear discharge comes from the glands that keep your vaginal canal clean, nothing to worry about there.

THANKS A LOT!! udk how much uve put me at ease. i am dyinggggggg to get my period and im all ready for it as well. but thinking abt my stomach being bigger and my breasts feeling heavy i keep think i might be pregnant when i never had sexual intercourse. but thanks a lot. i think i should stop reading all these pregnancy things online.

LOL yes that would be a good idea. Dont put thoughts into your head! And start keeping a record of your cycles so you know when to expect them! :)

hey i was reading what i wrote on top and i meant to say "if i got the brown discharge in the 20's of june and it lasted til JULY 2nd does that mean that was my period? if so then i have to wait till aug again to get my period again right?" instead i wrote JUNE 2nd and that made u say it was a long period. i am referring to post # 11. maybe now ur answer will be a bit different and my period isnt on the way?

hey i was reading what i wrote on top and i meant to say "if i got the brown discharge in the 20's of june and it lasted til JULY 2nd does that mean that was my period? if so then i have to wait till aug again to get my period again right?" instead i wrote JUNE 2nd and that made u say it was a long period. i am referring to post # 11. maybe now ur answer will be a bit different and my period isnt on the way?

I still advise you to go see a doctor. I have given you every possibility that could be wrong, in more than one thread. Let a doctor take over from here. :)

yea i know. but since the discharge last month came in the week of june 25 and lasted til july 2nd, i want to wait and see if i get anything on the same week of this month which is in the 20's of july. i was just reading ur other posts and u did say light bleeding can be a symptom in early pregnancy. that just threw me off.

It can be a symptom, but there is a difference, you didnt have sexual intercourse. :)

there are other ways of losing ur virginity so im thinking maybe i lost it without even knowing (not sexual intercourse) and the precum went inside my body and that is why im experiencing all the pregnancy symptoms. thats what im afraid of honestly.

I'm starting to think there is something missing here. If you had sex, dont be ashamed of it, just admit it, that way I can give you proper advice. There is no way precum can get inside of you without having intercourse, unless you stuck your finger inside of yourself when you had precum on it, but even THATS a one in a million chance, and you said yourself your finger didnt go in.

if i did have sex, i wouldnt even be hiding it because i am talking to u and honestly i dont know u like that and im sure im never gonna see u in my life. so right there, i shouldnt be hiding it cuz there is no point lieing to someone who u arent ever gonna see. no offense. just personally speaking.

but no, it wasnt ME who stuck the finger it was my bf. he just rubbed my vagina with his finger (s) when i had pants on. we were just messing around he had a condom on even tho it did not go anywhere near my vagina. since i never had any type of sexual intercourse and nor did he we just wanted to see how it was and some precum came out and i touched it. hes sure and so am i that he did not have anything on his finger when he touched me down there. it was over pants anyway. thats about it.

You have nothing to worry about thinking that you might be pregnant.

You need to go to the doctor to find out why your period hasnt come yet. There could be more serious medical issues going on here :)

Really Nautical well then how about Jesus... I am only kidding ... Mahm6266 I am wondering how you can be 20 years old and not understand how getting pregnant works... I am not trying to be mean or rude just wondering. I was younger then you when I lost my virginity ... but not by much ...and I can say I still understood how it works ... I really hope Nauticals awesome advice will help you out !
Ange

im paranoid. not dumb. theres a difference Ange.