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Old Jul 4, 2008, 01:20 PM
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wouldn't mind if my boyfriend watched porn

If I had a boyfriend I wouldn't mind if he watched porn, is this unnormal?

I mean as long as it's not too much, too much = several hours a day.
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Old Jul 4, 2008, 02:42 PM   #2  
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There is no "normal" each person has thier own opinoins, sadly porn is an addiction for many people. And if hours a day is too much how much is not, one hour a day, two hours a day. What kind of porn would be ok, would you want him to watch it only with you there ?

Each person has thier own idea of what is right or wrong
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I dont mind if my boyfriend watches porn, usually I watch it with him. He's not addicted to it and bearly watch it once a month.
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i don't think it's unusual. My husband usually uses it to jerk off once a day. We work a lot and don't have time to have as much sex as we'd like so he uses that and jerks off. I don't mind at all. he's gotta do what's gotta be done. lol
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If I had a boyfriend I wouldn't mind if he watched porn, is this unnormal?

I mean as long as it's not too much, too much = several hours a day.
Good for you. There is a big difference between watching porn at home or going around to other people while your with somebody.

It is good you feel that way, just do not openly say that to your boyfriend whenever you get one. Do not give a free card like that unless you want to watch it together.

Is it unusual or not normal, NO. The only thing is there are lots of women who feel inferior or get a complex thinking their boyfriend loves porn more then them.
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If I had a boyfriend I wouldn't mind if he watched porn, is this unnormal?

I mean as long as it's not too much, too much = several hours a day.
Take the time to make sure whomever you hook up with agrees, as there really is no such thing as normal, but only what your willing to put up with.
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I don't care that my boyfriend watches porn once in a while when I'm not home, I don't really care as long as it's not my computer, and I don't have to see it, but he doesn't watch porn every day or anything, it's not like he is spending so much time watching porn that it affects his life. I do explain to him that just because it's in porn doesn't mean it's ever happening in our bedroom, but I think he just watches it when he's bored and I'm not around.
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The key word is *IF*...if you had a boyfriend.

In a real relationship, when you saw that he was more interested in 2 hours of daily porn than he is interested in you, you would feel differently. That kind of porn viewing indicates that porn is the object of desire, not real live females.
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What kind of porn would be ok, would you want him to watch it only with you there ?
as long as it's nothing gay or involving any bondage, then i'm ok with it. and i dont think it would matter whether i was there or not.
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The key word is *IF*...if you had a boyfriend.

In a real relationship, when you saw that he was more interested in 2 hours of daily porn than he is interested in you, you would feel differently. That kind of porn viewing indicates that porn is the object of desire, not real live females.
that's true! completely agree. i often write or speak first and think later. now when i've thought this through, 2 hours a day would definitely be too much. i wouldn't mind less frequent viewing though.
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