I recently got into a relationship with an older woman(she's 29 and i'm 25) who suddenly acted strange on me after we were making out and such in the back of my car. She started to look like she was stressed and almost ready to cry and and started holding on to my arms tightly. I asked if she was okay and she wouldn't reply. For the most part she just stayed quiet. I called her up later on to make sure she arrived at home safely and she said not to worry and to go home and rest. Is this a case where a woman has difficulty coping with such an event?

thoughtiwastheman

I think she might of came...good boy.

excon

Hello mister:

I dunno. Maybe you rang her bell for the first time. That would be difficult for a chick to cope with.

Anyway, I certainly don't know how to figure out wimin. If you find out, lemme know.

excon

misterk

you guys think so? i don't know...i got all worried and such because I thought she was freaking out on me. she just became so silent but at the same time she would hold on to my hand still for example. so i thought she was mad at first but then i thought she was just getting all nervous and freaking out. she admits to me she is a nervous type of person sometimes. anything i can do to make her feel better? or just give it a few days?

excon

Hello again, mister:

Like I said, I dunno how to figure 'em out. Therefore, DON'T try to do what you think they expect you to do - cause you have no idea what they expect.

DO what you want to do. If you wanna see her tonight, call her and say so.

excon

PS> Dude, if you've got a quiet woman who doesn't want to talk about her "feelings" count yourself lucky.

smoothy

I think maybe she was uncomfortable at that moment. Be it with the situation and she wasn't ready. Hopefully you gave her space at that point and didn't push anything at that time. Some women react like that when they aren't wanting or aren't ready for the situation they find themselves in. I've seen it before.

If you backed away and gave her space, was respectful and give her a few days there is no harm in calling her. Maybe call her again in a few days to give her time to sort her feelings out.

misterk

thanks for the help guys.