I recently had unprotected sex with my girlfriend (very stupid i no). I showered in the morning and had not masturbated before we had sex. We did some foreplay then i penetrated her. I found it hard to ejaculate so we carried on with foreplay and she masturbated me with her hand untill i came. Im worried shes pregnant. she told me that on the same day she started her period and she is still on it. Im lost and scared that the worst might happen.

please someone help me. I can eat, sleep or do anything, my life is a mess

happylady123

Well when you have unprotected sex there is always a chance of pregnancy. But if she had her period she's probably not pregnant, but you never know. How long ago did this happen? Because you really won't be able to know for sure unless she takes a test, which won't be accurate immediately. Next time use birth control.

faza

it happened about 4 days ago. It was my first time, but was not hers, it was wrong and it should not of happened and im angry at myself. Im worried that its ruined my life.

happylady123

Don't get to nervous yet. She didn't take the test right? When is she supposed to get her period? And was she on her period when you guys had sex, or afterwards?

faza

She said her period was due soon. The day we had sex she said she bled lightly in the evening and her period had started. Not to sure what that means though.

happylady123

Well if she had her period you really don't need to worry anymore. And especially when she gets the next one you are in the clear. But it sounds like you are not ready for the consequences of sex yet, so you probably shouldn't be having sex. Think about this the next time your gf and you decide to get intimate.

margarita_momma

If she got her period that evening, then you probably have nothing to worry about. Get her to take a test just to make sure. Next time wrap up sweetie!

PippaSW

Well when I was trying to get pregnant, my doctor told me that I couldn't get pregnant while I was on my period. Cause that is when the body is getting rid of the eggs that were not "used" from the month before. So what I'm getting to is if she was on her period, than your chances of her getting pregnant are VERY slim. But do have her get a test, just to make sure!
And just make sure your really ready for all of the things that can happen with sex before you do it again.
Hope that helps!

faza

wow all of your answers were really helpful. It should not have happened, was just a mistake. Anyway just say she did not have her period because it was not due, how likely is it she could have got pregnant from the situation i explained in the first post i made??

PippaSW

Well the fact that you didn't ejaculate inside of her helps. But all men have a small pre-ejaculation before the "big one" and my doc. had told me that, that could get a girl pregnant............. but the chances of that really "doing the job" are slim.

Just so you know for when she could : count 28 days from her last period and on the 11th to 14th day, is when Ovulation usually occurs.

Hope that helps