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You're married, and you want to have a threesome, well, I don't know what to say.
Since you asked though, and even though I don't agree with it, I'll give you some advice. Both you and your wife have to be comfortable and okay with this. It's best that you don't choose a friend that you or your wife knows, someone that is pretty much a stranger to both of you, someone you'll never see again.
You do realize that this type of fantasy, when brought to reality, usually doesn't work well, in fact, it will most likely end up in divorce. But hey, who cares, as long as you get your fantasy.
When does she get to bring a man home and fulfill her fantasy?
STD's, extramarital affairs, intramarital affairs, divorce, litigations, oh so many possibilities.
Nope, this isn't the way to go. Do you remember your vows? Remeber, when you where at the church, in front of all those people, something about forsaking all others? Ring a bell?
Nothing wrong with fantasy, but some fantasies shouldn't become reality. This is one of them. You don't want to lose your wife over one night of fun. I'm glad you won't be going there, some road are better left untravelled, trust me on this one.
I would think so. Have you suggested perhaps watching porn of a threesome with your wife? Perhaps that's the safest way to live out this fantasy. There are certain things that you give up once you say "I do". And outrageous fantasies are one of them. Especially if you want to keep that marriage alive. Have you asked her what her fantasies are? You could possibly have as much fun or more living out one of hers (as long as its safe).