My wife never makes the first move in bed. Please tell me that woman are very emotional and they have to be in the mood upstairs unlike us men. I just have no confidence to even try anymore. Its like a job and to much work now. I just think if I really satisfied her she would want it more. She says that I do. keep in mind she never does turn me down if I try. I just wish she was I guess just more sexy and horny more. Like when we were in highschool you know.

pliskin

Here's another idea, get her to tell you one of her fantasies. If she has trouble expressing thigs like that, she might need a cocktail or two first. I know a lot of women have a fantasy about an anonymous stranger. Act that out for her. After time, everyone's sex life gets a little routine but let her know that she is free to fantasize and that it doesn't hurt your feelings that she has them. Another idea, my gal likes me to be the man and just "take" her and regardless of what mood she is in, it is a near instant turn on for her. Maybe by your initiation of sex, if you are being trepidatious about it, it is coming off to her as needy instead of you being the man and being confident. I am 100% behind the concept of women's lib but underneath it all, most women want a man to be a man. Ladies, any comments? Agree? Disagree?

Choux

Recent studies indicate that the excitement and passion of a new relationship subsides after two years. So...


....just a test. Arrange a babysitter, then, call your wife and tell her to meet you without any underpants on and wearing a skirt at such and such restaurant bar tell her to sit at the bar, not a table. I'll let you imagine what you are going to do after you see her sit down....maybe, you're already chatting with a woman there....

(caveat...don't have sex in public, but don't have sex at home)


Good Luck!