Why are straight women falling for lesbians today?

hetrosinger
My answer was about my personal life. What Laws were before orders of Protection. I do not know your age or what your experience of life has been or your degree if any is in. Did you read what I added at the end my answer? Both women and men, you can only tell a certain amount about {anyone} at the start. There are different levels of innocence. Yes, believe me some women are still virgins, as well as some men. Society pushes thoughts as well scene's in the young peoples minds. It goes much more deeper than what many believe. I was a virgin who waited for marriage. I met a young man who was not a drinker nor did he do drugs, always addressing others" Yes Sir" and addressing his peers, with much respect. My answer was I saw listened and there was no way I could know or see a deep family secret of his father a " State Trooper" , and the man I married a "Policeman". This family's secret life, and what a secret it was.
How can anyone know everything about another, no you can not, I dated this man over a year. I had no idea there was a problem. I myself had always attended Church. I played by the " Rules" of life and yes I was innocent I had no idea men beat women. I had no idea how they could and many did become. Everyone who reads this " just google how most pregnant women die ". It was a shocker to me. A man is the stronger, more strength and a small woman Like me, I have heard what others say, I'm a woman and have listened over the years. I imagine it is more out people out of the closet because it is accepted. I live in a small town but in the Small Towns of the South things are no way as they are in the other areas, things still are frowned upon. Not until the late 90's was the Police Man I married fired for his treatment to the public and believe me it was in the papers. I kept a copy. I understand other women can bully one another, sex makes little difference. At the end of what I said to the person who first asked the question : wait, do not rush, someone will come along, do not give up. There are still good people out there. I do not think a bar is the best place to seek your life time mate if that is what you are after. Laws NOW Protect BOTH women and men, in the past the Law did not. One they Life time Channel Jan. 21 or 27 of this month they will have a true story on about this very issue. Abuse from A policeman who beat killed many women and many abused control. It can go both ways, both parties can abuse. People in authority do, Presidents do, Teachers do, many in Congress do, most young people who grew up Protected have no insight into evil. Why because we are told it is out in our World, but it is difficult to see until it comes our way.
People of both sex's become obsessive. Like I had stated, do not rush there is someone out there for you. Look else where besides a bar. Take your time and get to know the person as well as you can. Watch for the red flags. But do not give up. The person you seek shall come, do not settle for less than what you seek. Make sure your expectations are on track. As Smoothy stated first impressions are lasting. Listen to the little voice in your mind, which warns us of danger. Women kill just like men, but not as much or as often, it is more men who are violent. Statistics prove this.
If you watch programs and begin to study you can learn much about this discussion. It would do anyone interested great good to do this exact thing. Take your time, you will find the woman for you or who you seek. I eventually did, there are still good ones out there. I did not allow what other people did to me make my heart hardened. I would not judge the person who came next from what the person before did. I had learned in the Bible judge not least ye be Judged. So I always kept an open mind. Good Luck and allow no one to make you feel that there are no good ones left. There are, maybe much harder to find, not as many great ones in bars. Check out the Book stores, Library's go to Social functions where you see the people who do things beside spend their free time inside a bar room. Good Luck to all, Best wishes to all

Please - this is not a thread about religion. Your Bible may very well not be my belief. This is an international site.

I have no idea how your post addresses the question - there have ALWAYS been protective orders. This is nothing new. People have ALWAYS abused their power.

What does this have to do with women becoming lesbians?

for your information, even the straight women are very nasty and have a very bad attitude today. i did nothing wrong on my part. i can't help it, since these type of women are just garbage now. i am just a straight man that does not like to be alone, and would like very much to meet the right woman for me. can you blame me, to want what is normal today? to you it may not be, but to me it makes sense. but then again you are bi, and you just don't get it. by the way, i have a right to be very bitter, since i do meet the nastiest women today. this is the reason why so many men like us cannot meet decent women today. just think, if there were not so many lesbians and bi women, men like us would have our own woman and not complain. with all of the lesbians out there now, they are the filthiest pigs on earth.

Dude.....you really need some counseling. I'm a guy, I see LOTS of women, and even though I am married I'm not blind. I have a pretty high standard, and I am still NOT seeing the sorts of things you are seeing. Perhaps have you taken an objective look at WHERE you are trying to meet women? There are certain venues that are going to NOT attract the best caliber of female.....Bars and Nightclubs being two.

If I was the type to fool around, it would be damned easy. And I am just an average guy. I don't have a six-pack...and You'll never see me modeling clothes. Or Reading GQ much less appearing in it.

Ever hear that saying, "You attract the people you are most like". You have a horrible chip on your shoulder. As a confident, straight woman, I would NEVER in a million years even want to have a conversation with a person like you if we met on the street. Your post screams insecure, and personally, I don't have the time nor the patience to want to deal with men like you. So maybe that's why you are having such a hard time attracting a nice woman. Just sayin'....

Wow...I have to say that if you're making comments like this, then I'm pretty sure I can see what the problem is for you meeting women. To refer to women as garbage in this post...you get what you give and I bet you aren't as awesome as you think you are. Maybe changing your attitude a little will get you further.


Oh yeah...and I just have to add...I still can't stop laughing about that ridiculous comment earlier in this thread about the song "I Kissed A Girl" turning women into lesbians...funny stuff.

I have to strongly disagree with this statement.

I have read too many questions by people who have their own partners to know that people who are insecure in themselves will find something to complain about in their current or past partners. They will also transfer those negative feelings onto people they meet and put the burden on future mates.

Take responsibility for your own part in past relationships. Accept where you might have made mistakes which might have seemed minor to you but weren't to your partner. Look at the warning signs you ignored. Look at how you approach others and what your expectations are. Make certain you are being realistic. Don't approach a person with the attitude of being owed anything. You aren't owed a chance to get to know anyone. No one has a guaranteed right to find a partner.

You can affect your chances of meeting the right person for you by getting involved in activities and hobbies you enjoy. Meet people who have the same interests you do. Get to know them as friends. Treat them as something more than a gold star you deserve for being straight. Make certain you aren't projecting your past issues onto the people you are wanting to get to know better. Don't look past the person who would be a suitable mate for you just to reconfirm your negative views by attempting to pick up the person with warning signs blaring and flashing around them.

"Our OWN women?" I'm married. I'm not HIS woman. I'm a person married to him.

His car, his dog, his woman?

And, yes, I commented on the music turning women into lesbians some time ago - I still enjoy that particular post. Good stuff!

Reminds me of my dating days - I would meet someone, we would sit down for dinner or a drink and he would go off on how his "ex" was the biggest b**** on feet - and on and on and on. Said a lot more about him than it did about her, and I would excuse myself and end the evening early. I was his date, not his therapist.

This kind of continuing bitterness - for whatever reason - poisons a "relationship" (or a date) from the very beginning.

For whatever reason bitter, bitter people think they have a "right" to be bitter and also have a passionate need to explain to the rest of "us" why they are so bitter - whether we want to hear it or care or not.

And to the OP - I'm NOT the woman who betrayed you, left you, "took up" with another man OR woman, did whatever she did to you - but you'll never know that because I decided within 15 minutes of meeting you that I'd heard all I needed to know about you. Between your bitterness, neediness and low self esteem - good-bye.

The OP has never returned, thread is going off tract to I hate women from some strange posters, Closed