Why are straight women falling for lesbians today?

I still want to know about the two at once. You said you were married to two women at one time, this by many standards is considered cheating.

let me explain something to you women out there, i am a straight man that was married twice. but not at the same time. i was married the first time for twelve years, the second time for seven years. both of the women cheated on me with other men, not women. plus my second wife is bipolar, which made it worse for me. so as you can see i have bad luck with women, not my fault at all. i did not do anything wrong to cause this. it seems a lot of men were blessed out there to have met the right women for them and have families, and others like me that were not as lucky as them. why i do not know. i wanted my second marriage to work out, even though she is bipolar. i tried a lot to work it out, because i loved her very much. now that i am in my late fifties, it is very hard to meet a good woman for me again as you can see. once again, i cannot blame myself like i have said before. i had to explain this story to you the right way, sorry for not explaining it the right way the first time. have a happy and safe holiday.

Your original post was very misleading. Sorry for the confusion.

I have been cheated on, in abusive relationships, dated serial liars and fakes. BUT I don't think all men are bad people. Yes, I will agree it sounds like you have had a rough go with women, and it's unfortunate that you have had these experiences. But not all women are like that! I dated a man who worked on oil rigs and was gone 2 months at a time and he stayed loyal, never once cheated or gave me any reason to doubt him. I dated a guy who worked and lived in the same town as me, and every chance he got, was cheating on me.

I could easily say all men are abusive, cheating, liars. But I know that for every scum bag, there is an equally great guy out there. If you go out there with the attitude that all women are lesbians or cheaters, you aren't going to attract a self confident woman. Any smart woman wouldn't give a guy like that the time of day. They have their lives going for them, and they don't have time for men/people who aren't going to be a positive influence in their lives. I am younger, but single. I haven't (totally--haha) given up on men. Yes I get frustrated and feel like there is no good men left. But I know if I go out there with the attitude that any man I meet isn't worth my time, I am NEVER going to meet the man that IS worth my time.

I kissed a lot of toads in my day. I always figured that eventually a Prince would have to come along - and one did. Two, in fact (I'm a widow, remarried).

I also realized that I wasn't going to meet anyone sitting in my house and waiting for the Prince to knock on my door - you have to get out there.

No God is not punishing you, I agree with the other person who said do not go into bars. Most of the time you can find nice women in Flea markets and beauty salons such as Jc Penny they have salons in malls the rest rooms are close to hair salons. go to a hair stylist and get a hair cut. Seek and you will find at the right time. I have to say I have seen a change in some women. the song I kissed a girl made girls start looking at others. Many may be just curious, it may be a fade that dies out, give it time and how about going to a small city 40 or 50 miles away. Try meeting a Christian woman on the computer, normally if you look for a good Christian Woman she isn't going to be the type to flip. That is what I hear it is called, the gay women attempt to take a straight girl and flip her.

Try and not rush it, and how about getting on the sight where people who went to school with one another meet. I've had several men I went to school with ask me out now over the computer. Start slow and not rush into anything with the woman, try to learn about her first and then precede slowly this way love lasts. Good luck you will find someone eventually. I did not go to bars because I did not want that kind of man. After years alone { and I was considered one of the top } I eventually did go to a bar, I met a man who drank and I do not smoke nor drink, but atlas he stopped drinking and has not drank for 4 years now. We are very happy. Best of luck

Are you saying that a song has turned women gay? How about women finally feeling no restrictions from relgious groups and other closed minded people? People do not turn gay, people do not choose to be gay, people are born gay, and it SHOULD be as acceptable as one being born with blue eyes or brown hair. Being gay is not a fad, and will not die out.

If you really want to meet a great PERSON, it's time to change your out dated thinking and open your mind to the different types of people that make this world go 'round.

No song, movie, TV show has ever made anyone "turn" gay.

What does you "were considered one of the top" mean?

to be honest what i have found is that women go for what is accepted by others, and these days heterosexuality is very much discouraged. and as everyone needs company, thats why girls or women go for other females

there are so many lesbians and bi women today. i have to agree with the last person on that one. many women out there now are just attracted to their own sex, instead of us men. why is that? i myself as a straight man, would like to meet a good straight woman for me now. the problem is, most of the women are no good pigs. i can see how they act, and many of them are a real low life today. they must have been very severely abused by the men in the past, and now many of them hate men. there is nothing wrong for a straight man like me that would like very much to meet the right one for me, like i have said before. can you blame me, since i am alone and single now. it is very hard to start a conversation with them because, they are very nasty and walk away. even the ones that are straight have a very bad attitude as well. so how do you expect us men to meet good straight women if they act like this now. i have done nothing wrong on my part to cause this to happen to me, that is for sure. where are the decent women today? do they exist? it now appears, all the good ones have been taken.

I refuse to believe that men can't find a straight woman unless there is something HE is doing to put them off.

Guess what? Women can sense when you think they're all "no good pigs" and steer clear of you. We can also sense desperation and lack of self confidence. What you project to the world directly influences who you attract into your sphere of being.

PS--an open mind might help some of you guys a lot. I'm bi, and have been married (and monogamous) for 16 years. Just because I'm ATTRACTED to both sexes doesn't mean I NEED both to be happy.

The bottom line is that YOU are the common denominator in all those women you're complaining about. What does that say about YOU?