Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now and we live together. I have a 3 year old and they absolutely adore each other. I couldn't ask for better support when it comes to that. But when I comes to the sexual part of our relationship it has been almost non exsistant for about the last 3-4 months. When we first got together we didn't have sex until about a month and a half into our relationship but when we did have sex it was perfect. Not to often not to little. But in the last few months we have sex maybe 2-3 times a month and its only because he's drunk. He says he's emberessed about his stamina and that if he's sober he's a minute man (which I have never experienced... if anything it's a little long for my liking). He has this porn collection that puts most men to shame. He's got about $600+ in dvds, about 50+ magazines, and his phone constists mainly of pictures and videos. Now I am very pro porn but there is also a limit to how much porn one needs. Don't get me wrong I watch porn and masterbate my fair share but he turns me down to masterbate to porn. Hell sneak it in while I'm downstairs watching TV and he's "going to bed", he's admitted to watching porn @ work, and pretty much whenever I'm not around. I will admit I have gained almost 15 pounds since we started dating but his previous serious girlfriend was way heavier than I am. I not fat or anything maybe a little chubby but he insists that I'm gorgeous and he loves having sex with me. But when it comes down to it, he's always turning me down saying its to late or whatever the excuse may be. He treats me like a queen most of the time and for the most part our relationship is strong. This situation has almost broken us up a couple times and I'm running out of options. Why would he rather watch porn than have sex with me?