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Asked Sep 4, 2010, 09:41 PM — 7 Answers
We've had sex once, and that was 3 months ago! He'll do everything BUT going all the way. Every time he comes over he fingers me, I give him head, etc. And everything is great, but we never actually have sex. I don't understand why? He's hella more experienced than me, so it's not like he doesn't know what to do..
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Sep 4, 2010, 09:43 PM
How old are you and how long have you been dating this person?
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Sep 4, 2010, 09:54 PM
15, he's 16. 9 months... What do you think is wrong?
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Sep 4, 2010, 10:28 PM
I think you are too young to have sex and he's probably scared he'll get into trouble. He's already had sex with you once and all the other things he has done is also sex. Leave it alone till you're older.
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Sep 4, 2010, 10:39 PM
Are you using any form of birth control?
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Sep 4, 2010, 11:51 PM
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15, he's 16. 9 months... What do you think is wrong?
What I think is wrong is having sex at your age.
Neither one of you are ready to face the consequences
Should it happen.

Would you like to quit school and stay home with a baby?
Have you done any babysitting? Do you have any idea of
How much work it is? Will your boyfriend be there to help?
At your ages 85% stay together less than a year.

Or you could wind up with a disease that will kill you.
Or one that cannot be cured. Or one that makes you go blind.
Or maybe some painful warts to hide under a bikini.
If you can still wear a bikini. Many can't after having a baby.


Don't cut your teens off early to try to become an adult.
You will lose some of the best years of your life if any of the above happened.

The only 100% sure way to avoid all of these sex related tragedies
Is not having sex.

I got married when I was 17 and had a son a few months later.
I am ecstatic to have my son. I thought I was ready to handle it all.

I can tell you without a doubt, you are not ready 17.
When you decide to have sex you put yourself at risk
With no sure way of preventing any of the consequences.

At 18 you are on your own because it will be up to you as an
Adult to make responsible decisions. But you will still not be
Ready.

Find a new hobby.

To keep your mind off sex.
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Sep 5, 2010, 06:14 AM
Underage Poster on ADULT SEXUALITY.

Whitechick, we do not give advice on sex to those under the age of 18.
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Sep 5, 2010, 07:32 AM
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He is scared of being a "daddy"
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