I would really like to know why men love getting head so much. Some men would rather get head than have sex so i'm just wondering what is it about getting head.

Choux

Pleasure is pleasure.

life1973happened

Great question friend one which I would enjoy answering.....

Though I am a female I think I can explain it quite simply. Besides most sensor points are located in that area, it feels great to them. And when you are good at giving them, mixed with the love of doing it to a man you have the perfect reaon why they would want it.

If you don't like doing it, don't. Don't try to act or force yourself to enjoy it. However, ask a girlfriend or a friend who is good at it to teach you how to do it to provide the most satisfaction for him. If then you don't enjoy it or prefer it at least you have tried.

Most of my girlfriends hate it. But there are some of us who really do enjoy it for ourselves as much as for them. We each have our own likes and dislikes when it comes to sexual interaction.

kp2171

hmmm... guess i have to go tell my wife shes a lazy lover since she loves getting oral?...

Synnen

Heck, I love getting oral too!

EVERYONE likes to lay back and let someone else do all the work sometimes.

kp2171

guess you know better than the docs at the CDC?

Can I get HIV from oral sex? | Questions and Answers | CDC HIV/AIDS

Primary HIV Infection Associated with Oral Transmission | Factsheets | CDC HIV/AIDS

i think ill trust the pros here. you can pretend its not a risk and ignore health experts...

Simple Asian

lol....well ...i think most of the guys like oral ...because we just lay back and let the girls do the work ...XD....sorry for saying that ....but oral is fun...and i love it

and btw....is this seriously ? ....the male can get HIV from the girl giving head ? .....

kp2171

the journal of the american medical association addressed this issue almost 8 years ago, stating that up to 8% of new infections in a study could be attributed to unprotected oral sex.

if you think im going to trust you over one of the most respected medical journals in the world, you are as clueless as you sound.

you are propagating a lie. the risk is lower than other forms, but not 0%. an infection rate as high as 8% in a population is higher than the rate of pregnancy while using the pill... it doesnt happen a lot. it happens. the higher rate was in a population engaging in risky behavior, but that doesnt mean it cannot happen.


theres a point when you can choose to be ignorant of the facts.

itd be laughable that you rebute some of the most respected medical associations such as the CDC or JAMA with "no you cant"... if it werent such a serious issue.

lower probability IS NOT the same as no probability.

talaniman

Aids is only one diease, there are many others that are out there. And before anyone gets the wrong idea, Aids nd other STD's can be transmitted by oral sex, so be careful who you eat.

kp2171

here... lets spell it out so this doesnt go on and on...

hiv transmission is typical through blood, vaginal fluid, breast milk, and semen...

dont see saliva there, right? thats why you think it cannot happen.

well.. ever see your gums bleed when brushing your teeth? think that there cannot be micro abrasions or cuts in the mouth? think that your unit rubbing inside the mouth cannot cause these micro cuts? wrong.

thats where transmission can occur. has occurred. will occur.

it isnt about saliva, its about blood.

just as it isnt about the sweat on an athlete, its the blood from a gash.

so... this has gotten way off topic, but i just think we need to resolve this misconception. the chance is lower, but still there.

that said... oral is still a fantastic option for sex for many, many reasons.

TrueFaith

Less work for the guy i guess. somtimes its nice just to relax as it were.
its one of the best things you can do. i know its my fav gift. it means a lot to a guy when this is done.

because it shows the girl really cares and does somthing for you. and in turn we do the same

it cant be all just one way