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Why do I hate myself after masturbating?

Asked May 14, 2012, 05:22 PM — 41 Answers
I'm 18 years old and I don't understand this. It's normal and natural for me to get urges to masturbate, but when I do, I don't enjoy it. It feels really good up to a certain point and then suddenly its like my hormones turn off and I get sooo mad at myself. I've tried looking for the answer, but all I find is religious reasons so let me make this clear: THIS ISN'T BECAUSE OF MY RELIGION, and I KNOW IT'S NORMAL, EVERYONE DOES IT, NOTHING TO FEEL ASHAMED ABOUT.

I'm not ashamed.. its like I'm grossed out. I step outside myself and am like "Wow what are you doing. This is disgusting. I hate myself, I hate myself, I hate myself." Sometimes I even try to promise myself or God (thinking it'll maybe make me actually commit to the promise...) that as of said day, I will not do this anymore. It'll last for a while like 3 weeks, but sometimes no longer than maybe 2 days.

Again, I know its completely natural, healthy, God make us how we are.... Maybe that's everyone elses reason for thinking their "wrong" for doing it, but NOT mine!!! So why do I hate myself afterward and stop at a certain point?!?! I DONT UNDERSTAND THIS!!!!! Also...this has been happening for about 4 or 5 years now..I've tried to get further in masturbating to maybe knock the habit of hating myself out, but it didnt work.

I'm afraid that when I get further in my relationship with my boyfriend that I'm going to get the same hatred feeling or get scared away from him. So far its good but we haven't gone in the pants at all yet. Please help me?
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Jul 5, 2012, 10:55 PM
Omg i know exactly how you feel this has been happening ever since i started masterbating id feel horny and masterbate and.it feels so good then not long later i get so mad and hate myself and i dont believe in god so it aint a religious thing. Im also scared that when i have sex with my boyfriend or the first time that im going to get mad half way through it
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Jul 9, 2012, 01:09 PM
If this is an issue we can explore it in your own thread.
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