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  • Oct 23, 2005, 11:24 PM
    c7c7
    Why do guys like to look during sex?
    I guess this is kind of a DUMB question, but why do guys like to look at their ****s going into you?
  • Oct 24, 2005, 07:04 AM
    fredg
    Looking
    Hi,
    It's a normal thing. Some women like to look, too.
    Some like to have sex in the dark, so they won't see each other. Others like sex in daylight, or with full lights on. Some like mirrors on the side and on the ceiling!
    It also "turns them on" even more watching.
    It's up to each individual likes and dislikes.
  • Oct 24, 2005, 03:44 PM
    CroCivic91
    It's the same reason we like to watch our girl giving us head. It's sexy to watch it, and, as fred said it, it turns us on even more :)
  • Nov 15, 2005, 06:54 PM
    expertinlove
    Im female and I LOVE to watch it turns me on. I love lights. I geuss it just depends what you like.
  • Nov 15, 2005, 07:49 PM
    letmeno
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by fredg
    Hi,
    It's a normal thing. Some women like to look, too.
    Some like to have sex in the dark, so they won't see each other. Others like sex in daylight, or with full lights on. Some like mirrors on the side and on the ceiling!
    It also "turns them on" even more watching.
    It's up to each individual likes and dislikes.


    Actually, I really don't like to look :o
  • May 18, 2007, 01:57 PM
    nowatkins
    I guess its different stokes for different folks. I like to look it makes me ejaculate more intensly. I like it in the dark, in a park, in a car, in a bar. I just like it.
  • May 18, 2007, 02:59 PM
    fix-what-you-broke
    I'm a woman, so I will tell you it from my side...
    For me, it's a turn on to see it, I don't exactly know why, I guess it just adds to the whole experience... the sounds, the tastes, the sights...
    I like to see what he is doing to me... gives me a visual to look back on lol...
  • May 18, 2007, 07:10 PM
    steviebeezie
    Why ask why? If your guy likes it and you don't have any problem with it, enjoy it! Keep things exciting for both of you as much as possible. That's what good sex is all about.
  • May 21, 2007, 01:14 PM
    smoothy
    Guys are visual... we like to watch, even if its us doing the deed. Don't worry about it, its just how we are wired.
  • May 22, 2007, 07:22 AM
    iupetre
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by c7c7
    I guess this is kind of a DUMB question, but why do guys like to look at their ****s going into you?

    To be honest, I love watching because it's like the best kind of porno. The kind you are in! Now, this isn't to mean that he all of a sudden respects you less or see you as just a vagina to screw. Let him have some eye candy!
  • Jun 4, 2007, 03:30 AM
    leilaa111
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by c7c7
    I guess this is kind of a DUMB question, but why do guys like to look at their ****s going into you?

    It turns them on I'm a girl and I love 2 look and I love my boyfriend looking it turns us both on
  • Jun 4, 2007, 09:01 PM
    CuriousG
    I personally like to watch... like most said, it's just a turn on for some and not others. Most women seem to want the light off because they are not confident that their bodies look good I guess. And... all this talk is even turning me on LOL
  • Jun 5, 2007, 12:19 AM
    Greg Quinn
    It is a real grab at reality when you look and there it is "in her." It's a way to say holy I'm not jerkin it! I'm really here! LOL... It's a great question.
  • Jun 6, 2007, 11:38 AM
    eman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by c7c7
    I guess this is kind of a DUMB question, but why do guys like to look at their ****s going into you?

    Being a guy. I can relate. Guys are sexually stimulated mostly through sight. When we see you naked we are stimulated and even greater when we see something sexual happening to you. Like our penis in your vagina.
  • Jun 6, 2007, 01:07 PM
    WoodsGurl
    Im a female and I have to say most men enjoy watching! My boyfriend does that and he gets even more excited! Just be happy that you know that the person having sex with you likes your areas;)

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