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    Nov 10, 2006, 07:56 AM
    Why can't I orgasm
    :( :mad: I'm 21 and just started having sex again after giving it up for a while to try and find myself some to trust and not use me... so I found that guy and we had sex for the first time this past weekend. And we were going at it for an hour and a half and I didn't have one orgasm. I mean I have had them before, and he was doing everything kinky that I love... and I got nothing. So I wanted to make sure that it wasn't me so I tried to give myself an orgasm the next night and again I got nothing... what can I do to get an orgasm so I don't lose this guy that is totally special to me? Please someone let me know :( :mad:
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    Nov 10, 2006, 08:00 AM
    Where you maybe concentrating too much?
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    Nov 10, 2006, 08:13 AM
    Im glad ;)
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    Nov 10, 2006, 08:22 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Krs
    Im glad ;)

    Maybe the effect of the alcohol didn't help either... but it used to!! I don't know... maybe I thought about what he was thinking too much and not just relaxing so... im going to rock his world tonight!! Haha:cool:
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    Nov 10, 2006, 08:27 AM
    Alcohol does that to me... sometimes :cool:

    Its was probably a mixture of things, it could been as you said, you were thinking too much... besides it was your first with him, so it could also be you weren't a 100% at ease.
    Tonight just relax, feel sexy and enjoy it ;)
    (just be safe ok)
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    Nov 10, 2006, 09:16 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Krs
    Alcohol does that to me...... sometimes :cool:

    Its was probably a mixture of things, it could been as you said, you were thinking to much... besides it was your first with him, so it could also be you werent a 100% at ease.
    Tonight just relax, feel sexy and enjoy it ;)
    (just be safe ok)



    :D THANKS SO MUCH!!
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