Where do I go from here?
Asked Jul 9, 2012, 11:13 AM
Okay where to start? I just need some advice.
I have been dating this guy for over a year now, but prior to that we were really great friends. We have so much In common and apart of me feels like he is my soul mate. even though he says the same thing to me, after breaking my trust I find it hard to believe.
So here goes. We started dating, everything was perfect, he was working we were happy, the sex was and is amazing and he when with me is constantly attentive to every need.
5 months into the relationship it all changed, he was at work and I was at his house waiting for him to finish. I never had doubt in my mind to not being able to trust him until I found out he was having an online relationship with another person at the same time.
When I confronted him about it he said he didn't know how to end it with this girl, and that he was afraid to tell me.
I believe everyone deserves a second chance, and that is what he got. The next week, I had this urge to have another look for some reason.
All in all he lied, chatted up 3 different girls on the net. When drinking makes a point when I am not around that he lives life like s single man. Despite all of this, we do talk things are slowly making progress. He no longer is on Facebook, he has given up drinking and is doing everything in his power to prove me wrong when it comes to changing.
I just want to know, after have your trust broken in such away, do you think it could be mended or am I seriously wasting my time and should I just find someone who can be honest and loyal from the start??