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what type of a girl is one who slept with 50 + guys??
Currently she is 27.
10 yrs ago she had a 45yr old boyfriend, more than 1.
Slept with 2 ladies also in the past!
It is possible this girl has learned about her sexual power and has no problem using it to get what she wants from men. I think we all know, or have known, a female that uses sex to get what she wants or to get a guy to do something for her.
It's also possible she's just a fun girl... and that's how it's worjed out for her.
Frankly - It's her business, her reasons, and her life.
It's normal to have slept with a few people like that, just not to common that someone ever admits that at your age. The going out with a 45 yr old man @ 17 was really great for him, but maybe not her thing? That seems like a self esteem issue maybe...Or she likes older men or age doesn't matter. My advice is for her just to try to stick with what suits her fancy, just to fill out her own list of things that may explain what she as a whole is getting. Like ...Is she leading people on? Is she hurting people? Is she happy after these encounters? {although it really isn't that promiscuous if you divide it between 12 or so years} people that often give in to sexual advances so easily, usually lack protection and should get checked regularly for Stds, I would have simply agreed with Ashley19 but I think if some one posts a question on here like you did it means you want something. And I'm a guy...And we are awesome at getting vulnerable girls into bed. Well she should know that. LOL
I think that all people can change, so my question is who is she today,
Yesterday was yesterday, I used to be a drunk, I did drugs in college and when younger, and sex was considered a past time, names had no meaning.
So who is she today, numbers don't mean anything and people make alot of mistakes when they were young.
If this was a man, and he was bragging he has "scored" 50 women, someone else would brag they did 60. But if a women does the same they are considered evil.
The truth is, if a person is loose in thier morals, then they are loose and have issues with moral judgements, but they can change, and when they do, they have to live with their past, but they also are starting over.
You gave a report of what they did 10 years ago, and several years ago, but who are they today.
It saddens me how quickly we judge each other. Especially women. If this were a man........there would be NO discussion. Because it's a woman..........we all throw stones. As stated, maybe she is a self assured woman who knows what she wants. Maybe it's not about finding a partner to be monogamous with but about sexuality. To say she is a big risk for STD's is uninformed. How do any of us know she isn't using condoms? I mean really............. If she were a man she would be congratulated, viewed highly by women and generally seen as a normal guy. I say......to each their own. Differing values does not mean differing value. Cathy
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