What should I think ?

Neither of us want kids. I personally don't see the big deal in him conning in me . Why does everyone seem so terrified about it ? Haven't you been curious to what something was like? Or wanted to try something new that's all I'm trying to do

I understand completely, you just want to try it at least once just to see what it's like. Everyone's so "terrified" about it because there's a very real chance, although incredibly slim, that you could get pregnant. If you can explain to him and present him with some very real facts about the effectiveness of the Depo shot at preventing pregnancies and convince him that you just want to try it ONCE, go for it. Just be prepared that there is a chance, even if it's a 0.01 percent chance, that you two could be proud parents 8-9 months later, just sayin'.

I understand the consequences . I think he's worried about it because his sister had a baby while one depo , but I see it as I can't get pregnant . If I don't have a period anymore how can I get pregnant

Even without a period, you can become pregnant. As I stated, I know someone who ovulated once but her period never came because she got pregnant that one time. It can happen.
As for wanting to try something new, its not an "obvious" sensation. You may not even be able to feel it. Its not as interesting to experience as you may think. If he doesn't want to, its a mute point in your relationship. I'm sure it'll happen for you in time

Problem solved . I asked him about it and he said it does scare him but hea willing to do it at least once .

I don't really see what problem was fixed... in fact, now that he will inside, there is a potential problem if you were to get pregnant when both of your are not quite ready to have kids.

Just because you believe you can't get pregnant on depo, doesn't make it a fact and I hope your pleasure, and curiosity don't back fire. It only takes once. I think you appreciate what you have until the time is right. Whats the hurry??

Just to make sure you're aware. Even if he doesn't ejaculate inside you there's plenty of sperm in pre-ejaculate to get you pregnant.

So, since he's penetrating without a condom, even if only for a while, there is still sperm entering you.

Also, there's no form of birth control that's 100% effective. Every time you have sex pregnancy is possible. We have a few people on this site right now that got pregnant on the depo shot.

But the choice is yours. Even if he does wear a condom, and you're on the depo shot, there's still a possibility of pregnancy. If he doesn't wear a condom, there's a higher possibility. If he actually ejaculates in you, then there's an even higher possibility.

Lindsay, how old are both of you? How serious is your relationship? Are you talking about the future or are you taking it one day at a time?

What I am seeing is someone who wants to chance a pregnancy (however slim the chance might be) on a sensation and who wants what she wants when she wants it. I am not sure if you have listened to your boyfriend or even care about his feelings. What he did with another female is not what he is currently doing with you (unless you want her in your bed along with him, I would suggest leaving her out any discussions on your sex life.)

Why not wait to tempt Nature until you are married or at least engaged? Then if you gamble and Nature wins, you will have a firmer foundation for making life altering decisions.

Hey Alty, is there REALLY sperm in pre-ejaculate? I don't want to get swarmed here (like I was with my very first question), but I've read a few studies here and there on the web that said yes and a few that said no. My ex was on the Depo shot for 3 years and I just always pulled on time, every time and even a year after she was off the shot. I'm just curious if it's a hard and true fact set in stone because I don't think it is.