I am Les. and ive been dating my GF for about 1 month and 16 days and well the topic of Orgasims came up and i was thinking crap i dont even know what it is i mean i do but i dont and i dont know how to have one or get one..so my questions are:

1.)what is an Orgasim?
2.)How do i have one?

me and my GF agreed that we wont be doing any thing more than what we have until later on but i want to know for when the time comes..this is my first relationship with a gurl and i really do love her..

educatedhorse_2005

Your telling me you have never masturbated.

An orgasm is the point at which you go over the edge and all your muscle contract and release. You feel a rush and then you go weak.
You feel exhaulted and relax.

As far as you having one it is rather easy.
When you have an erection stroke it until the pressure builds up and you release.

But remember that there is no pressure on you to find any of these things out.
I would recommened that you sit down with your parents and find these things out.
But we will help answer your questions the best that we can.

Go look at this web site.
http://www.coolnurse.com/orgasm_female.htm

J_9

While this may be possible for men, it is not possible for women. This is a woman we are talking to.

It is easy use your fingers, inside and out, rub the clitoris, you will feel your muscles tighten and then a release.

It is a very pleasurable experience.