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Old Jul 10, 2009, 06:03 PM
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What does this mean?

Ok not to be disgusting or anything but the last two times i seen my husband when he came home i gave him head. He was like oh **** so i know that had to be a good sign and then when he came home earlier today i gave him another one but i got more into and switched it up with different stuff and he was like damn baby what u been watching and when i sucked my fingers he looked so shock lol. so from a guy's point of view was that a sign that i was doing something right or wrong?
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Old Jul 10, 2009, 06:10 PM   #2  
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i dont think its a sign that you did anything wrong. maybe he just wasnt too sure about it. you could be asking HIM this question you know :P he would be able to give you a better idea of what it means (im not saying you souldnt have asked hon, dont worrie)

i woudl suggest you sit down and talk to him about it. ask him what he was feeling and how it made him feel and ask if he liked it or not, and waht he did like about it, what he didnt like, ect. you get the idea :P

good luck hon.
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Old Jul 10, 2009, 06:15 PM   #3  
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lol yes. i like that idea. so i will just try to talk to him about it. im still new to this stuff so yea im a little embarrases about it
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Old Jul 10, 2009, 06:17 PM   #4  
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its ok i learned the hard way too. its a learning process. and learning to share your life with another person is one of the more difficult ones.
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yea you might have overwhelmed him.i dont see anything wrong here but when a girl does something way out of bounds it goes make a guy wonder whats up?
where did this come from?
instead of doing a sit down and talk were it could become more awkward
i would brush it off by saying something like
"i was just really into it"
or something like that ,your style
by the way keep up the good work
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lol yes. i like that idea. so i will just try to talk to him about it. im still new to this stuff so yea im a little embarrases about it
I know what it would have meant to me: It would mean that I married one hot gal and I love it.

Don't ever be embarrassed to discuss things of a sexual nature, it is one of the better conversations that you can have. I had a real good friend that he and his wife could not talk to each other about sex. Both wanted to make love but didn't know how to let the other one know either that or one could not pick up on the actions of the other.

Now to say what I think about your actions, if my wife did something that she had not done before I would assume that she had been reading a book, you'll never know how much I love those Harlequin Romance Novels, She reads between the lines.

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jenniepepsi agrees: especially dont be embarrassed to talk about sexual things with yoru husband. he above all people shoudl know about it!
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Old Jul 10, 2009, 07:29 PM   #7  
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yes indeed it is a hard process
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lol okay zippit i will do that. i kinda thought the samet thing but i hope he doesnt think that way
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Thank you "letmetellyu" i liked your answer it made me smile alot and gave a personal point of view
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Most definately did the right thing from a guys perspective. As a man I always realy, and I mean REALLY, liked a women that took initiative like that.

His shock might simply be from not expecting it... I think a good answer would have been, "well honey, I missed you and just wanted to do something I thought would be special for you".

Heck, any man that doesn't appreciate it is a man that doesn't deserve you.
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