What counts as losing your virginity?

mogoverthemoon · Jun 13, 2007, 10:50 AM

Penis into the virgina- after that, you isn't a virgin anymore sorry

greenopal56 · Jun 14, 2007, 07:37 PM

I think it depends. I was in a situation where I wasn't ready to have sex, basically I was forced into it, and that was how I lost my virginity..technically. Because this had a big effect on my life and it still does, I felt like no guy would want me because I wasn't a virgin anymore. But I was told that unless you gave yourself willingly to your partner, your virginity isn't completely lost. Its like a second chance, you wait until you're ready to share it with someone you love. It prob sounds stupid, but I think its credible. This prob isn't the case for you, which I'm glad. But if you want to start over again, I don't see anything wrong with that. When your with someone who's given you pleasure on the more personal type of level, then I think you can say you're not a virgin. Just don't have sex w like, 20 people and say your still a virgin, haha

Skell · Jun 14, 2007, 07:39 PM

So your a guy and you can't come but sex doesn't last longer than 10 minutes? I don't get it? You keep going until you do come.

kepi · Jun 14, 2007, 09:46 PM

What your "virginity" is a very personal thing- some people consider having oral sex losing your virginity and others say you need to have penis is vagina. My answer, thus, is: You're not a virgin when you decide you no longer are a virgin.

Mamao2 · Jun 14, 2007, 10:55 PM

I believe losing your virginity is when a penis goes into any opening in a body willing. With that said, if you are raped or someone has sex with you when you are not wanting to, you are still a virgin. If both parties agree to the action, it doesn't matter where the penis is inserted (mouth, anus, vagina), you just lost your virginity.

sovaira · Jun 17, 2007, 01:37 PM

Does virginity counts for guys?don't think so.

kepi · Jun 18, 2007, 12:11 AM

Guys can be virgins as well...

smoothy · Jun 18, 2007, 06:43 AM

Most guys don't care that much if you are a virgin or not. Most of the guys who car this deeply are of the type that expect a Dowry for taking you off your parents hands. Basically the type that think arranged marriages are alright. Personally I don't think others should be telling you who you will marry or when. Or demanding a Dowry to marry you. These are the same types that think it's fine to burn wives alive if the dowry isn't paid or they do something else they don't like.

Marrying a virgin can be nice, but its not something to stress over particularly if you are already in your late 20's or older. Up to and including my wife virginity isn't something I cared a great deal about when I dated. Her personality and behavior meant far more than if she was a virgin or not.

stevie123 · Jun 20, 2007, 06:43 AM

Loosing you virginity consists of having sex - puting the penis into the vagina - it still counts whether or not it was pleasurable or pleasing - the first or second time are normally more painful that pleasurable but after that it should get better.
Are you saying you feel you don't last long enough ? And that you to soon ?
If that is the case you can go to a sex therapist with our partner to find out the cause or the quick ejaculation and therefore make sex more pleasurable for both parties
Hope that helped
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What counts as losing your virginity?

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