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if a 20 yr old guy fingers a 15 year old girl and she lies to the cops and said she had no problem with it, what would happen??? what can she say to NOT get him in trouble.....and to possibly not get her parents to find out?
if a 20 yr old guy fingers a 15 year old girl and she lies to the cops and said she had no problem with it, what would happen??? what can she say to NOT get him in trouble.....and to possibly not get her parents to find out?
oh yeah........by the way people.....i'm probally going to be hanging out with him again soon......can't wait for that to happen....and I WILL BE SAFE!!! he won't do anything if i tell him not to....maybe you people don't get that part of the story well enough....... hahaha....more info for us! but mainly me! and he did say he was really TRULY SORRY for what he did which is the main reason why i don't think he should get in trouble....i told him i was l6, i never said no, and i did pretty much want it....soooooo....the only problem is the short time frame age difference....had this happen after august 7, 2007...it would be fine.....but it happend april 7 instead......
Nice mature answer...you can tell by your posts that you are only 15. Also by any state or even morals that it young. You probably won't be hanging out with him becuase he will be in jail...or he will be banned from seeing you. I hate to burst your bubble but that is probably what is going to happen. You need to think about your actions, becuase I hate to say it sweetie a twenty year old isn't going to be happy with fingering for long. There is no short-frame age difference you two are six years apart. Before you can engage in sexual acts you need to mature more, becuase from the sound of it sex is just an act. Sex has consequences.
Nice mature answer...you can tell by your posts that you are only 15. Also by any state or even morals that it young. You probably won't be hanging out with him becuase he will be in jail...or he will be banned from seeing you. I hate to burst your bubble but that is probably what is going to happen. You need to think about your actions, becuase I hate to say it sweetie a twenty year old isn't going to be happy with fingering for long. There is no short-frame age difference you two are six years apart. Before you can engage in sexual acts you need to mature more, becuase from the sound of it sex is just an act. Sex has consequences.
uh yeah... i know that.....i'm not some mentally challenged kid who might not know better....i didn't make him do that.....and if your going to write crap you know i don't want to read, then don't bother!!! and i'm the last person you are going to talk about sex having consequences.....you must not have read my other posts because THEY CLEARLY SAY THIS IS NOT MY FIRST TIME WITH THIS SH!T, AND THAT I'VE BEEN THROUGH THIS BEFORE!!!! and with the way guys have treated me...i've only seen sex as an act that guys do to make themselves feel better, while they're hurting me! read what i've wrote and maybe then what you say might make a small, small, very very small..... difference..and there you have it!
first of all you don't need to get rude..you are the one that got yourself in this postion and are asking for adivice. If you don't want it don't ask for it. Also you have some problems that you need to work through before you contiune with this habbit you have of making men feel better. YOU DESERVE BETTER. You shouldn't be using your body to make someone else feel better when you yourself don't feel right. You aren't the only one that has had problems with men hurting them. I too have had problems but I worked through it. I seriously think that you need counseling to work through these issues y ou have. But as you say it is you life. I stand by my post becuase it is all true.....have a great day!
sweetblood, you have apparently made up your mind so I won't waste my words since they won't make a difference.
But, hun, please, please know that you have been warned. You are putting yourself at more risk than you need or can handle at this age. I need more convincing to see that a 20 year old has only good intentions with a 15 year old. (What is he doing hanging out with 15 year olds and not people, especially women, his own age?!) Please pay more attention and see all the blaring warning signs. 15 is a ripe, perfect age for many predators so please don't think you are immune in anyway (have you even heard of the t.v. show "To Catch a Predator"?)
Anyway, you've been warned and be prepared to face the consequences. Good luck.
sweetblood, you have apparently made up your mind so I won't waste my words since they won't make a difference.
But, hun, please, please know that you have been warned. You are putting yourself at more risk than you need or can handle at this age. I need more convincing to see that a 20 year old has only good intentions with a 15 year old. (What is he doing hanging out with 15 year olds and not people, especially women, his own age?!) Please pay more attention and see all the blaring warning signs. 15 is a ripe, perfect age for many predators so please don't think you are immune in anyway (have you even heard of the t.v. show "To Catch a Predator"?)
Anyway, you've been warned and be prepared to face the consequences. Good luck.
I guess to answer your question "what can I say to NOT get him in trouble." I would say there is nothing you can do. Cops are pretty good at smelling a liar. The more you lie, the more they are going to think he did more than "fingering" and you will get him in more trouble - which is apparently what you want to avoid. You need to be honest - because you will not help him by lying.
As, others have said, their is a witness and your testimony might not even be needed.
Under the law, you are a minor, he is not - so there are serious consequences to his actions.
Suddenly its obvious why young girls need protecting. Honey, your attitude is seriously messed up! Until you learn, probably the hard way, things like this will keep happening to you. I made the mistake of asuming you were mentally in the same place as I was at your age but you clearly are not. Everyone on here has tried to help you but all you want is someone to tell you how to lie and cheat your way out of your problem, which nobody here will do!
I guess to answer your question "what can I say to NOT get him in trouble." I would say there is nothing you can do. Cops are pretty good at smelling a liar. The more you lie, the more they are going to think he did more than "fingering" and you will get him in more trouble - which is apparently what you want to avoid. You need to be honest - because you will not help him by lying.
As, others have said, their is a witness and your testimony might not even be needed.
Under the law, you are a minor, he is not - so there are serious consequences to his actions.
thanks....but how can they smell a liar? they could find out that i'm lying easliy....but they can't prove that i'm lying.....i could just say i was lying about the whole thing just to get attention.....
hahaha....more info for us! but mainly me! and he did say he was really TRULY SORRY for what he did which is the main reason why i don't think he should get in trouble....i told him i was l6, i never said no, and i did pretty much want it....soooooo....the only problem is the short time frame age difference....had this happen after august 7, 2007...it would be fine.....but it happend april 7 instead......
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