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if a 20 yr old guy fingers a 15 year old girl and she lies to the cops and said she had no problem with it, what would happen??? what can she say to NOT get him in trouble.....and to possibly not get her parents to find out?
So you did have a problem with it?
A lot would depend on the state and the age of consent in said state. Most states he will be in deep doo doo. -- Savage
So, she did have a problem with it?! This is a little confusing. Is she lying to protect him from getting in trouble for assaulting her?
How are the cops involved? Did someone complain? Was someone hurt? There is not enough on this post and what is here is confusing.
yea she did, and she is protecting him...she never said no so she feels like it's her fault, but then she doesn't really care and she likes the guy....she told a staff member at school...and the staff member got the cop involved....she just wants this to all go away.....
So you did have a problem with it?
A lot would depend on the state and the age of consent in said state. Most states he will be in deep doo doo. -- Savage
i didn't have a problem, i just want it to all go away.....he's 20 and i'm well......u know.....l5...sooooo.the cop wants a bunch of info and i don't want to say anything and my friend and her familt could get in trouble cuz it happened at her house.....ughhh....i hate that stupid person...i just wanted to talk and the next thing i know i'm talking to a cop....not cool...
Ok girl
A 20 year old having any type of sexual activity with a 15 year old is wrong, and most places illegal.
Add in the fact she was not willing make me want to see him under the jail not in it.
And yes the parents will be involved. The school will be notifying then to protect the school. If they did not when the parents do find out the school will be wide open for a law suit.
Ok, and now, which state are you...i mean, is she in?
i don't know what state i'm in...i'm just so confused and upset....i don't do well under pressure...i'm just so scared of whats going to happen tomarrow...their going to call me and my friend down to the office and try and talk to us...i just want to know what the best thing to say is to make sure he can't get in trouble!
sweetblood, don't panic. Take a deep breath. You don't know which state you are in right now? Take it easy.
First you said you had a problem with what he did, now you say you didn't. Which is it?
And, I would be grateful to the person who contacted the cops because people like that help protect our children against predators. So, don't be angry at them.
Now, take a deep breath. If you consented to whatever you did with this guy, let the cop know. If you didn't, it is even more important that you tell them. You are very young and he is an adult. If anyone is to be blamed, it is him. So, just be honest to the cops, and to your parents.
About getting in trouble with your parents: Everyone makes mistakes. Realise and admit you made a mistake and in time, this will be behind both you and your parents.
Next time, be smarter and be more aware of who you trust yourself with. Don't grow up too fast.