Hello. Being get aroused by my BF and before sex I get very wet, I mean my vagina becomes too wet. and my BF does not like it. As he comes up to me he shrinks from my vagina as it is wet. Why is it so? And how to do it less wet?

rapper

If Your Bf Not Like Wet Vagina
Find Another Partner!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Greg Quinn

You could bring a sterile dry cloth to bed with you to pat down your wetness just prior to intimacy. I can't imagine someone really having to go to such extremes for something so normal. But it is an answer to your question. Good luck!
PS, I don't think a doctor is going to help here, contrary to "rapper's" opinion.

talaniman

Must not be hard enough to start with. In any case put it back in.
Sounds hot, but real men know what to do with a wet one.

monicamarch

Thanks for your advice!!!

kp2171

ive avoided this one since the OP hadnt been back until today.

might take some flack for this one, since it goes against popular opinion...

i dated a girl who was almost "too wet" for me sometimes. notice i said "for me"... i dont like a lot of friction, but some, and i dont want to think im tearing up my lover... but ive had sex in water and as good as it can feel at first, some sensation gets lost quickly. so i dated a girl who was so naturally lubed that there was less friction and less sensation than id noticed with other lovers.

so... what to do? find a new position. there are a number of positions that can change the feeling... for ex, woman on the bed, on her right side, man coming in from either a kneeling position (so his unit is penetrating at a 90 degree angle from "normal") or he also can be laying on the bed, either facing her but pulled away or in the oppisite direction. the woman squeezing her legs together can create more "grip" or pressure and the angle at which he enters can feel different for him and her... and she can self stimulate... if she likes pressure at the perinium, he can apply this with a wet finger.

and theres others too...

i understand the aim to let her know that good lubrication is mostly a great thing. that shes not broken. i agree completely.

i also believe sometimes you have to work with what feels best for you. if the positions hes trying arent working out for him, instead of blaming her he should be trying other positions that satiate them both.

a woman can be very wet, just as a woman can be very dry, even with proper foreplay and mental state. a lover who thows up his hands and says "its your fault" is too quick to blame and not very innovative or interested in finding middle ground.

kp2171

isnt that when im supposed to ring?

have a great weekend.