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    #21

    May 14, 2008, 03:11 PM
    If Your Bf Not Like Wet Vagina
    Find Another Partner!!
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    #22

    May 14, 2008, 03:22 PM
    You could bring a sterile dry cloth to bed with you to pat down your wetness just prior to intimacy. I can't imagine someone really having to go to such extremes for something so normal. But it is an answer to your question. Good luck!
    PS, I don't think a doctor is going to help here, contrary to "rapper's" opinion.
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    #23

    May 14, 2008, 05:52 PM
    Intercourse is almost impossible with me because I am sooooooo wet that a penis can't even stay in my vagina.
    Must not be hard enough to start with. In any case put it back in.
    I have to laugh because ANY male that is not a kid that reads a topic headline "Wet Vagina"
    Would go... : "Sounds hot!"
    Sounds hot, but real men know what to do with a wet one.
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    #24

    May 23, 2008, 01:49 PM
    Thanks for your advice!! :)
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    #25

    May 23, 2008, 04:02 PM
    I've avoided this one since the OP hadn't been back until today.

    Might take some flack for this one, since it goes against popular opinion...

    I dated a girl who was almost "too wet" for me sometimes. Notice I said "for me"... I don't like a lot of friction, but some, and I don't want to think I'm tearing up my lover... but I've had sex in water and as good as it can feel at first, some sensation gets lost quickly. So I dated a girl who was so naturally lubed that there was less friction and less sensation than id noticed with other lovers.

    So... what to do? Find a new position. There are a number of positions that can change the feeling... for ex, woman on the bed, on her right side, man coming in from either a kneeling position (so his unit is penetrating at a 90 degree angle from "normal") or he also can be laying on the bed, either facing her but pulled away or in the oppisite direction. The woman squeezing her legs together can create more "grip" or pressure and the angle at which he enters can feel different for him and her... and she can self stimulate... if she likes pressure at the perinium, he can apply this with a wet finger.

    And there's others too...

    I understand the aim to let her know that good lubrication is mostly a great thing. That she's not broken. I agree completely.

    I also believe sometimes you have to work with what feels best for you. If the positions he's trying aren't working out for him, instead of blaming her he should be trying other positions that satiate them both.

    A woman can be very wet, just as a woman can be very dry, even with proper foreplay and mental state. A lover who thows up his hands and says "its your fault" is too quick to blame and not very innovative or interested in finding middle ground.
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    #26

    May 23, 2008, 08:43 PM
    Altenweg agrees: And once again my husband's at work. Thanks KP ;)
    Isn't that when I'm supposed to ring? ;)

    Have a great weekend.
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    Jul 28, 2009, 04:06 AM
    A very wet vagina is an absolute turn-on! It sure beats trying all you have for some unfortunates who fall into the 'dry category. I did have one 19 year old who got so wet and was 'known to get so wet that know one else had seen it before as it literally
    Dripped down her leg before sex (after a ton of foreplay) ----but, she knew what to do as did the others and I am lucky! Some rubbed the extra all over my body. To remind me of how turned on one girl was, she herself reached down and rubbed some across my face and mouth... Also, I had a 7 year relationship with a woman who had ejaculatory orgasms especially during pregnancy and I must admit that while one might need to prepare beforehand after experiencing a number of the same experiences, AS A MAN: How do you think I felt to bring such tight and powerful gushing orgasms to the women I cared for? I loved it! Use your extra vaginal lubricant as a sexual turn on to your man (or woman) and after all, WHAT IS BETTER THAN CLEAN but KINKY-BOTH SATISFIED AND WILLING MESSY SEX? Sure, there isn't always time for a long time love making sessions but when a chance comes about, let the wonderful healthy smells and fluids and dreams flow freely so as long as both are on the same page!
    OFF TOPIC LOL!: I have more of a hard time with larger women as I'm a 34 year old male of above average size (modestly) but only 5"10' tall and 140lbs and the only trouble I have had is feeling like I was doing my full part in making love to a slightly bigger beauty... I have been with woman from 98 lbs to 180 and I have nothing bad to say about any size! In fact, some of the best foreplay, kissing, wetness and turnon's have been with a slightly bigger partner... I just cannot manipulate them as easily and I'm not weak muscular lol! Anyway, wetness is the biggest turn on! Sex isn't suppose to be clean and quick... explore and you will find the most sexiest of places and things to do to each other so as long as your minds are equal.

    Question 2: I hear of men who produce some lubrication... I might before stopping an orgasm produce some drops but do some men constantly lube like a woman?
    Thanks
    Yeah, woman: ride your man like a horse and smear that lovely wetness and sexual smell all over his body... there is never too much, just too much laziness!

    OR woman: I don't or won't ever claim to have all the answers... always be humble and I'm looking for the next long term or honest friend and sexual partner to discover new heights! TAN! LOL--not a swinger... you just all reminded me of things past.
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    #28

    Jul 28, 2009, 05:52 AM

    Closed, because this is over a year old.

    Please watch dates!

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