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    paranoidmess19 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Nov 7, 2008, 03:39 PM
    To Wet for Sex
    Me and my boyf have amazing sex but sometimes he can't he says its becoz I get sooo wet is the possible ? How can I stop it?
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    linnealand Posts: 1,088, Reputation: 216
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    Nov 7, 2008, 04:18 PM

    How wet are you talking about? You could stop it by not being turned on. What does your boyfriend want you to do about it?

    I think you would have to be talking about serious wetness to reach the point where it would interfere with his pleasure so much that he can't achieve orgasm. Did he think about how you might feel after hearing this comment? I'm all for communication, but some things are sometimes a little too much. If he has such a big problem with it, you could always use a towel for the excess. Just remember not to exaggerate with what you take away. Your skin needs to be wet to stay protected.
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    Nov 7, 2008, 05:03 PM

    He is a moron... just get out a towel to keep the sheets dry. Some women do get really wet... He needs to grow up and make the most from it.
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    Nov 7, 2008, 06:34 PM

    If he is not wearing a condom he is producing a part of the moisture, so tell him to dry it off.
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    Nov 7, 2008, 07:39 PM

    Yep are you all young teens ? This sounds like a young boy who is stupid.

    As noted, you are what you are, and getting wet is a natural thing.
    Sounds like he is to used to his "hand" and that feel.
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    Nov 8, 2008, 12:37 AM

    Too wet?? Am I reading this correctly... I guess keep a towel nearby to dry things up if its as big a deal if it sounds...
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    Nov 8, 2008, 12:51 AM

    I would suggest that he stops pounding the pudding for a bit. I know there have been times in my life when the monkey has been spanked a bit to often and I had sex with a woman who was extremely wet or the consistency of her lubrication was such that I didn't get the right balance of subtle friction and slidability; if that makes sense. So that, in combination with my desensitized state made it difficult to climax through intercourse alone.

    Another way is to have him engage you in more foreplay. If you fool around for an 1/2 an hour or more, there is a good chance your arousal level isn't as off the chart as when you first started and you may not be producing as much lubricant. The other side of that is have him please you first before both of you have intercourse; either you or him make you climax at least once before you have intercourse. Again, your arousal level may have changed (or maybe not) with regard to your wetness; well it's worth a try.

    If you are already doing that and that's the problem. Perhaps the odd time you could leave out the foreplay and you may not be as aroused without it and it will give him a chance to complete.

    I know how frustrated he is, I've been in the same situation in my life; but rarely is it the woman's fault for being too wet. My feeling is he needs to stop masturbating for a month or two and allow his sensitivity to return.

    Good luck.
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    Nov 9, 2008, 02:23 PM

    He has probably fallen in love with his hand... it is always a really tight fit!

    Don't *ever* let a man make you feel like anything is your fault. He may be a masturbation addict!
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    Nov 9, 2008, 03:14 PM

    Haha, just keep the towel handy!
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    Nov 9, 2008, 03:57 PM

    Any male that is this inconsiderate and rude is someone that is not worthy of having for a boyfriend. He will probably blame you for everything. Look for a new boyfriend that is respectful of you.

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